If hes a good father and overall a good guy, bail him out, if he's never there, always out, and doesnt support u, then leave him in there so he can learn his lesson. Just my opinion
MY OPINION. Leave him in there. Take the sign while its smack in your face. If she will bad mouth you like this to her son, what will she say to your baby if she ever watched them? Would her rumors to him cause him to do something irrational like run off with your kid one night? A grown up makes their OWN decisions, and we cannot control a person, nor is it our responsibility. He knew the consequences of his actions, and still doesnt want to face them, expecting you to get him out of trouble. My opinion girl, do not get sucked in to that family. Think of what future it means for your baby, and for you.
How long they thinking what he do. Inbox md if you dont wanna put it out there. Ive been here done that.