Some advice ladies

[leannep12]

Im 33 weeks pregnant just over my boyfriend has been going on online dating sites as I've seen a message from one on his phone its not the first time his done this but what he says to my face is just what i want to hear i fear. Now im at a point i can't take no more its me and our unborn that's suffering coz im not sleeping overthinking everything do i just say to him that im cutting all contact between us for a week so he can decide what it is that he wants because we live apart and only see eachother at weekends so by the looks of it his getting best of both worlds i just don't know what to do???

[TeenMomma99]

I have seen this on a movie and in my eyes i think it would very effective to cut all contact for a week to see what both of you want with a set place and time to meet if you choose to stay together be true to eachother and try for the sake of the baby you both will show up to the set meeting place at the set time holding on to the good memories and letting go of the bad forgiving all mistakes and promising to be better if not then just be mutual with respect for one another to have a decent relationship for your guys unborn baby

[Skyesmummy2010]

Personally I don't see how cutting ties for a week will make any difference, especially as you only see each other on weekends anyway, it's just extending your normal week by two days.
You need to both sit down and have a serious conversation, ask him why he's on these sites, ask him what he wants and tell him what you want and what you expect from him. Trust me the silent treatment does nothing but postpone the problem for even longer, it will not resolve anything and you will have to have this conversation one day anyways.
Just bit the bullet and have a conversation.

[hothotsauce]

I'd bounce. Why would he suddenly magically change after a week?
if after an honest conversation he can't understand what he's doing isn't ok, then you and the baby are better off without him. You're going to have less energy to devote to him after the baby comes so his need for attention from other women is probably just going to go up.

[qzx15]

Don't do anything "for the baby's sake". Cuz in the end your choices will effect that baby. Be smart and dont try to change the man. He is who he is and only he can decide to change, baby or no baby. You need to look out for you and your baby only. It will be his loss if he chooses not to be in his childs life.

[lifeisamazingmama]

Once a player, always a player. Don't waste your time.. drop him. You don't deserve a man like that. Be on mutual terms with him so he can still be in the baby's life. Other than that... relax and try to move on.

[Angelsparxx]

I'm sorry to break it to you at a delicate time, but he is giving you an early preview of what he will be like. If he is doing that to you now, its just going to be worse. If he really loved you and was happy he would not be doing that...if I were you, I would really rethink if that is how you want to be...word of advice; I'd rather be a single mother than have a man run me crazy..good luck