help! ladies & gentlemen

[brittb08]

Ladies I'm so depressed I'm 37 weeks 17 days to go. I cook breakfast, lunch, dinner & clean constantly. I make sure everything is clean and he's happy but I feel I dont get appreciation for it.im not asking for much, but a foot rub or a back rub or breakfast in bed once in a while would be nice. I feel like he's the pregnant one. Man if so I would be a great husband lol. He's selfish and only thinks of himself. It's always making sure the baby is ok not me or both of us it's just the baby. He's always tired and his day goes by with games on the computer, i feel alone and if I ask for his time I have to wait and then when I do it's 5 min. Then back to his games. Am it's just hormonal or should I do something about it???.....ive talked to him, cried out to him, he knows im depressed, but yet nothing still. :( sorry for the vent just need advice.

[brittb08]

Thank you ladies!  And I actually did talk to him made him turn the computer off or I was gonna disconnect it and told him how I need him n need help n he's being really helpful and more attention :)

[Aarahbellah]

I think you should sit him down and really talk make him face you and listen because all the work you put on yourself and stress is not good for baby and he should be helping you especially at a time like this let him know how you fell if nessasary stay at a friends house with no contact to him for some time make him realize how much you do and let him understand you wont come back until he get the point you need time and help from him and not just 5 min

[MommyToBe42015]

3 words. Password on computer

[brittb08]

Yeah I wish I could do the same and just leave the house dirty but he just adds on to it. And he'll wait until I just get tired of it being dirty and I mean filthy dishes stacking up, food on counters, food nats, and mind you he does all this. And I get disgusted by it so I start cleaning. Idk what else to do to ask him or to say hey help me! He used to clean before but now his games are first hell I get 5 min of time with him until his game starts if I'm lucky. Just *****. I'm worried when my son comes if it's gonna be like this. He says I'm not it's his son. But little does he know how hard I'm taste gonna be.

[MommyToBe42015]

My boyfriend kept wanting me to do stuff yet he being a truck driver always left when things got tough or went outside I'm 39 weeks 6 days left. And he found out if I ain't happy house ain't clean. Now I get foot massages. Compliments and he takes me shopping all the time. I also recommend learning to crochet or do plastic canvas. I now have so many granny squares laying around to turn into a blanket it's crazy

[wholivedinashoe]

If you're reaching out to him and he hasn't listened, try writing him a letter, when you are finished you'll feel better. If he doesn't respond try find ding a hobby( knitting, reading, even finding a game like PlayStation or Xbox game that you'd be interested in. I personally like killing zombies. Lol just to get your mind off of what he's not doing for you. Keep doing all of the things that you're currently doing if you want.