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Im 10 Weeks pregnant and my boyfriend was okay at first But now he says he wont dope and it will put too much pressure on the relationship and that abortion is the thing we should Do But i dont want that But i dont want to loose him What should i Do?
I personally wouldn't do it, if u already have love for your baby and you KILL him/her for your boyfriend, who should've cared enough,for your relationship to use protection I can almost guarantee you'll end up without him or the baby. If he thinks a baby is too much there's no way he'll be by you through the depression that comes with murdering your little blessing. :(
PS.
These posts enfurriate my baby's daddy, we've been together for 5 yrs. He's been in gangs, drugs and in n out of prison his whole life and stopped EVERYTHING because he wanted a baby. He's been completely sober and hasn't even been pulled over in a year and we've finally been blessed (6 mos preggy w/a baby boy) and he gets so mad because the average guys is too much of a coward to be a father!
Good luck Hunny and may God help you through this.❤❤
PS.
These posts enfurriate my baby's daddy, we've been together for 5 yrs. He's been in gangs, drugs and in n out of prison his whole life and stopped EVERYTHING because he wanted a baby. He's been completely sober and hasn't even been pulled over in a year and we've finally been blessed (6 mos preggy w/a baby boy) and he gets so mad because the average guys is too much of a coward to be a father!
Good luck Hunny and may God help you through this.❤❤
Im sorry to hear about that your bf wants you to do that. He sounds indecisive. Its your body that is carrying your little cutie not his. If u want to keep your gift ignore your bf. There are a lot of people who are unable to have kids and would do anything to have what you have.
So let's say you have an abortion and he ends up leaving you in six months or a year. How would you feel? This is your decision and nobody elses. You have to do what you can live with. I am pro choice but it has to be your choice! There are many single mom's who can do it and make good lives for themselves and their children and for some women they just can't handle it. I wish you the best darling.
If u dont want a abortion dont do it n dont let him bully u into doing it cause ul regret it for rest of ur life if it not wat u want n ul end up resenting ur bf so ul end up loosing both ways...all the best goodluck.i feel for ya
It's completely your choice because no one else lives you life but the guy sounds like a douche.. just remember your baby already has a heart beat...
Dump him and keep your baby. Your baby is way more important. I was in the same position I decided to keep my baby. The boyfriend end up leaving but I kept my beautiful blessing my son is the best thing that ever happen to me. Good luck and make the right decision for yourself and not him.
Don't do it, your child is a blessing and no man will ever be able to replace your child. I had a miscarriage before and it's been almost 2 years already since it happened & I'm still not completely over it. Believe me, you never want to ho through that kind of situation. If you don't want your child give the baby up for adoption to a couple who will cherish the baby but wait until the baby is born. There's many couples out there who are struggling to have a baby & would be wonderful parents. I hope and pray you make the right decision
I'm going through the same thing. I just found out I'm four weeks pregnant and my child father told me to get an abortion.. I just can't see myself doing that. What if I'm never able to have kids again and I abort my child. Don't do it children are blessings and didn't ask to be here.
I'm going through the same thing. I just found out I'm four weeks pregnant and my child father told me to get an abortion.. I just can't see myself doing that. What if I'm never able to have kids again and I abort my child. Don't do it children are blessings and didn't ask to be here.
You're not alone sister, my boyfriend did the same thing and I dumped him. What is wrong with these guys anyway? I'm also the type of woman who is obsessed with babies any man in the future who deserves you will love you, your baby (ies), and support you throughout your journey. I'm single and pregnant. Some nights I cry alot but there is always hope. I try to keep faith and remember God is there for you
If he's saying its too much pressure on the relationship then I wonder in he end, what will he be willing to invest in this relationship. If he won't be in this with you now, will he ever be?
Praying for you...keep your baby and leave your boyfriend
Keep the life inside you, find a local church to help! Put the baby up for adoption if you can't take care of the baby. Praying for you.
It's your body, you do what you want to do, make the choice on your own without him.
You know no one will ever replace that part of you. Not your boyfriend not anyone. That is your baby that's is life inside of you. You can choose your boyfriend or you can choose your baby who will be there always.
I felt terrible when I had a miscarriage I went on depression because it was just so hard on me and to imagine it was my body that could not handle it. Now i am pregnant again im married to a wonderful man and we are expecting this month. Motherhood is just the most beautiful part of being a woman. But it's your body it's your decision it's on you. God bless you.
I felt terrible when I had a miscarriage I went on depression because it was just so hard on me and to imagine it was my body that could not handle it. Now i am pregnant again im married to a wonderful man and we are expecting this month. Motherhood is just the most beautiful part of being a woman. But it's your body it's your decision it's on you. God bless you.
Your body your choice. And in all likelihood, it's too late for you too have an abortion. In most US states you can't have one, without medical necessity, after 12w. And more and more states are trying (if not succeeding) to make it earlier (Ohio wants to outlaw abortions past 6w). And even more commonly, they're shutting down all the clinics.
But regardless, if you want your baby, keep it. Your boyfriend is the father and has a right to an opinion,but not to the final decision.
But regardless, if you want your baby, keep it. Your boyfriend is the father and has a right to an opinion,but not to the final decision.
If he has the audacity to make you choose, you've already lost him. It's the life of your baby vs your bf who cannot accept responsibility. Trust me, If you do get an abortion for him, you will regret it. Maybe not at first, but you will.
If he's got that type of attitude he will probably leave regardless if you have an abortion or not and you will be the one to live with that decision for the rest of your life. You are already ten weeks along. I have been in this same situation and I chose to have my son. His father left me when I was five months
pregnant for someone else. Sadly the life he left me for cost him his. Noone can make that decision but you. Just don't let a man be the reason you abort your child.
pregnant for someone else. Sadly the life he left me for cost him his. Noone can make that decision but you. Just don't let a man be the reason you abort your child.
There are so many girls that get an abortion because the boyfriend wants it and then as soon as they get it the bf changes his mind.
Keep the baby dump him.
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