hormonal

[nladdie]

So I am 15 weeks today and I am very hormonal, this is baby number 2. I am always sad or crying about everything and anything my kids father is at the point if leaving me because of it and bc I keep placing my stress on him... I work 3 job goto school part time and keep pressuring him to get another job im stressed bc I dont know what im going to do when the new baby gets here we have no family here to help us out so we are basically on our own. Do u ladies have any advice for me??

[nladdie]

Yeah maybe your right...

[AmandaR19]

Now that is jus WRONG!!! That jus got me thinking a guy you've been with for 7 years says that?? Those are things that shouldn't even be thought about when you truly love someone. Don't feel forced to stay with someone jus because of the kids or love you think you won't get anywhere else. You deserve a lot and if he can't give it to you then you need to really sit him down and let him know jus how you feel.

[nladdie]

Yeah thats y I have been pressuring him to find a better paying job and he said if he does then he wants to split up bc he will no longer have time for a relationship... which make me extra depressed bc we have been together 7 years... so I have been bottling everything in bc I dont want to upsett him..

[AmandaR19]

Wow!! Sounds so stressful. If I were you I would be extra hormonal too. Thats horrible in my opinion you shouldn't be the one working three jobs plus school part time. That's to much on your plate you need to take it easy and remember stress isn't healthy at all. I'm also 15 weeks and this is baby number two as well but I get a lot of help. People like you I wish I lived near you I would Help out! On the other hand your partner shouldn't get to the point where he wants to leave you he needs to put himself in your shoes and your shoes are very stressful! Stay cool and good luck *Remember, things get worse before it gets better jus have faith ! You'll get through it hard work pays off!