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11777386 tn?1426289802

so confused

My husband has had another pregnancy prior to me but at 7 months she said she has a miscarriage (I thought after 24 weeks you were safe from misscarriges ) after telling him she cut all communicant with him I can't help but to think that some where out there I have a 8 year old step daughter he dosent know if she is alive eather he thought she was  dead (I have talked to him about my feelings ) I just want an oppion would you ladies have the same felling I'm a ftm and it just keeps hoping into my head expecaly if I think about our baby coming out as a girl instead of a boy
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It is possible that she lied, there are alot of evil women, but you are not safe from losing a baby after 24weeks. Not at anytime actually. A friend of mine lost her baby at 38weeks.
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11812324 tn?1435883504
If you have a miscarriage after 24 weeks you have to delivere a still born baby that's what its called after the stage they call a miscarriage. Look it up online. Hopefully she didn't lose the baby and she is out there someday and he will fins her if she is..
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Sadly not every person thinks like you, if we all did there would be no parent drama and father/motherless children, i feel so bad that you are in this situation, maybe a private investigator?
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Wouldn't hurt to look for her, just to put your mind at ease. I'd definitely talk to my partner before I did that though. But unfortunately, it is a possibility to lose your baby at any time.
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11777386 tn?1426289802
Yes we have tried it's like she changed everything I'm just concerned that he has a child out there he dosent know I don't see how people can do something like this even If me and my husband broke tides I could never remove his child out his life and for there to be a possibility that someone has done it to him just hurts me because of the look in his eyes when he thinks of that little girl
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Have you guys tried looking for his ex on social media? Maybe old acquaintances?
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