husband issues

[aleahfleming]

While we were out at dinner with some friends he  asked his friend if his ex wanted him to feel the baby move and then proceeded to say that he has zero interest in it and it's creepy. That was the first thing that stung. We haven't been intimate much lately sinceI'm rarely feeling up to it and he starts complaining and then said that if he doesn't get laid more often he's going to start treating me like another guy treats his gf (he's an absolute a-hole, cheats and treats her like garbage, she's pregnant as well). This was all at dinner, our friends didn't hear most of it since they were paying attention to the kids, I'm 21 weeks along with our first and for some reason he feels the need to say mean things out of no where. It took everything I had to not break down crying I'm front of everyone. I suppose this isn't a question just a rant. I'm just really upset and have no one to talk too.

[juliaaaxoxo]

We all women are strong women we can take anything but our chindren (main priority) no matter what !! Sometimes is hard but try to make the best decision for your baby :) Take care

[aleahfleming]

He's not dumb enough to cheat. I know that. He just doesn't think before he opens his mouth and even though I've told him before, he seems to not care about how his words effect me.

[dorothy701]

Tear not year sorry

[dorothy701]

Wtf! Addy is so right and if he does I hope you smack him!! I'm sorry he needs to understand that if he was playing that is jot something to even be mildly joked about when your not pregnant much less when your poor hormones have your emotions hard wired to your year ducts!

[lovinmylilmanadriel]

Hunny sex got you where you are now im 18 and loved having sex with my bf before I got pregnant and now im 33 weeks and cant stand the thought of sex and havent my whole pregnancy he tried that with me so I simply told him you want to cheat go ahead you wont be hurting me your just hurting yourself me and your son will be gone out of your life in a heartbeat. ... if your man chose to *** inside of you and risk having a baby now that your pregnant he doesnt want to understand that you dont want sex if he doesnt want to wait he has a hand tell him to use it pregnancy changes alot about us girls some of us hate sex others rip their clothes off at the thought of it he needs to understand that or keep his dumb *** comments to himself

[addysmama04]

You need to talk to him and tell him his comments have no place in your relationship. If he can't understand what making a baby puts your body through then he shouldn't be around if he says he's going go cheat for lack of sex.