i dnt know what to do anymore !!!

[anethabrego]

so my boyfriend says i dnt love him anymore or that im just with him cuz of the kids we have 2 and other baby ow but i mean his mom is so frustrating so she makes me mad so we always fighting cuz of her she tells him that i said things about her whit other prople or so and when is a lie is her always talking **** about me and his brothers girl , do u think i dnt love him when he doesnt wanna buy me a phone cuz his parents dnt let him i dnt go anywhere all week im here i dnt have a car if i want to go to the store he has to take me if i want to go with his brothers girl somewhere he dnt let me only with his mom which of course not cuz shes a hypocrite person i cant stand her i mean im sorry but shes idk when we use to live with her and we would leave somewhere she would go sneack in at our room and take some of my clothes and throw it away like who does that shes a psycho!! now we leave

[anethabrego]

yeah i mean i dnt care not having fb or social media but he doesnt want  me to talk to my family either  thats where me and him fight alot also hes like yur dad dnt help us i mean why would my dad give me money ,he knows i love him and we been thru alot when we had our first daughter shes about to be 3 yo in August i left when she was a week old and didn't come back till she was 7 months i dnt think he should be that way with me cuz his mom wants to tell him i talk to other guys or something i mean i feel like he doesn't trust me cuz of his mom

[cassie941]

Honestly belive it or not its domestic abuse. He is keeping you from alot of things which is not normal, he is being very controlive of you. The kids really dont need this drama in there life. I belive that you do need a phone in case of an emergency trust me ive been thru it all maybe even worst. Ive been a stay at home mom for quite awhile but when i was the one working & i was finally independent things became so diffrent. I dont have have a fb either i just rather not have one but i do have other social medias that i keep in touch with my friends & family. Based on his mom she needs to be put in place,dont let her do thoese things to you. I would respect my mother in law alot before even when she would say alot of hurtful things, i would just bite my tounge untill i spoke my mind & put my foot down she now knows i dont take no bull sh*t from her. He also needs to respect you & stop being controlling with you thats not healthy

[anethabrego]

no i dnt work cuz he wants me to be here  with the kids

[baby1209]

You don't make your own money?

[anethabrego]

yess were happy but u really think is normal for me not to have a phone when is something i need tom ake their appts if something happens hopefully not how am i gonna call the police or something i mean its something i need i dnt even have a fb nor instagram im just a full time mom and im happy with it but when she dnt talk to me he wants me to go and talk to them and im the one should be mad at them for making things up about me

[JustAGirl333]

Casper is right. You need to be happy as do the kids.
If you're not then you need to think about what's best for your kids.
Sounds like a lot of wasted drama your kids don't need.

[Casper0611]

Sorry, I couldn't really understand everything you said but, the important thing is that you and the kids are happy.  Maybe sit down and have a conversation with him and tell him how you feel about everything.

[anethabrego]

but still we leave infront and she pissed me off