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7 months and homeless

hey yall i know this really has nothing to do with being pregnant, but i need some opnions i dont know what to do. i just turned 18 on the 13th and for my birthday i got kicked out due to being fausly accused of something. my boyfriend is still in basic, his family dosent know what is wrong yet, and im crashing on a friends couch. i dont know what to do i still have a few months of school left, my son will be here sooner than we think, and im homeless with no job and have no idea what im going to do. my family lives an hour away and if i move back home i will not be able to finish high school. my boyfriend gets back in a few months and we are getting a place but i dont know what to do until then, can anyone direct me in a helpful way. also i have no money and no job. i used to gey money every month from my parents but that goes to who i used to live with and it goes to their bills. im completely stressed out to the point i keep getting sick, im not getting sleep, and i am shoving food down my throat just because i know my son needs it but i dont know when im hungry i have to be forced to eat.
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I'm glad you have found somewhere to go! What a relief that must be to you. Good luck with your last few months, I hope everything works out for you!!
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Go home to your parents. Like the lady said earlier you baby is more important you can finish school another time
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it gets taken out of their checks and my parents and i arent on a talking basics. i have found a place to stay until my boyfriend and i get a place so i can graduate. thank you all for your help. the people that have taken me in are going to help me with anything i need to get me on my feet
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Go back home you can get your GED it isn't worth waiting on him with a baby on the way with no where to go I would go back home
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Look to see if there is any type of free walk in clinic, or a women's clinic, planned parenthood...idk where you are as far as country/state anything like that, but you are normally able to find them in most cities. Just Google free health clinic. Good luck
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Since you're no longer living at that other place,  won't your parents send money to you separately?  Why would they continue to send money to the place that has kicked you out?

I think you need to go to the counselor first thing Monday morning and ask for help.  You seem like a sweet girl - and you only need a place to live for a matter of months.  Counselors often know of families with an extra room and a big heart.

Best wishes.
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what kind of clinic? and im suppose to get a call from my boyfriend today and i was going to explain everything to him before i talked to his family. im already on wic. but thank you both.
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I would tell his family What's going on and ask for help. You have to put the needs of that baby ahead of yourself even if its embarrassing.Your boyfriend can send you money from basic. He gets a pay check and has no expenses right now that military is taking care of him. That way When he gets back you can have the house all set up and ready!Good luck!
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Catch the bus or train to the nearest clinic and they'll provide you with plenty information regarding homeless pregnant woman they provide wic food stamps Medicaid etc until you get on your feet
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