in laws..

[ana3arroyo]

So I'm 18 weeks along and this is my first baby. I have my gender ultrasound on Tuesday, and my husband just told that his parents asked to go with us to the ultrasound, yet I only wanted it to be me and my husband. I didn't even invite my mom to go. Is it wrong of me to not want them to go? Am I being to selfish with pregnancy?

[chantanmore]

Just tell them your doc says it's to many people in the room :)

[HaileyandBenny0319]

His parents have had there own pregnancy experiences it's not selfish at all. This is your baby and your experience and you can do as you wish. I personally wanted to bring my whole family and his But when I got there I was only aloud to have one other person aside from my boyfriend in there. So I had like 6 people in the waiting room and my sister was the lucky number two I picked to come in with us. So keep in mind they might now even be aloud in. She only wanted me to have my boyfriend Inn there actualy but I begged her to let me have one more person cause my sis traveled a distance to come

[kd97229]

At my dr's office they will only let two people in the room in addition to you... You could blame it on space requirements if you don't want to be confrontational.

[dreamland21]

Its definately your choice! My bfs mom went with us and i thought it was great i dont talk to my mom. i know they are just as excited as we are and im sure they want to see the baby in the ultrasound. Its your choice tho and they should understand but i think its fun when they go :)

[lkaykirk]

I made my husband's grandparents mad because the only people who knew the gender were my sisters because they were doing a revel party. My sisters knew for like 2 months and it just about killed my hubby's grandma. I found it funny though. It was my decision and people had to live with it.

[ginawynanne]

Don't hesitate for an instant to have your ultrasound the way you want.  It's a private, very special moment between you and your spouse.  He should not have asked them without asking you first.

[mallorypaigeeckman]

I was in the same boat when I was that far along, do whatever you feel comfortable with or else you will end up wishing you had a more private pregnancy.

[mommaDof3]

Not at all. It's a moment for you and your husband to enjoy.  You're not inviting anyone else to go so just tell him. He has to respect that.