I find this really fing dumb! what do you ladies think!?

[monikacortez]

So me and my boyfriend decided that we dont want anyone in with us when I give birth.. we were talking about it earlier and he said the dumbest crap ive ever herd! He dosnt like my mom because shes never been supportive and shes always dissed him even tho hes never done anything to her and hes always respected her even when he doesn't want to.. he said if my moms in the room with us then hes willing to give up seeing and experienceing his first child being born just because he thinks shes going to say something disrespectful like she always does... I find this really fing dumb and frustrating!! -_-

[monikacortez]

Yea my mom was trying to force me to get an abortion...

[burdmommy]

My mom has been of no support to me through my pregnancy so far, and I'm,not having her nor my MIL in the room. Just me and my husband. My mom was secretly hoping I'd have a miscarriage. There's no way I'd want her there.

[ericaranae]

I think it would be so rude and disrespectful to you if any immature comments are made while your in such a situation i hope it all gets figured out and no tension is involved wish you tje best. Id beat my bf lol my family has issues with my bf but at the end of the day i had my bf and sister holding my legs and they both were veru helpful and loving and loving towards each other... People need to respect you and try to keep you number one in that moment not themselves

[monikacortez]

Xiomyreyes I totally agree haha he does noted to grow up but I wouldn't really find my mom helpful

[xiomyreyes]

To me he sounds very childish u need the support of your mom ither he likes her or not my opinion he just needs to suck it up and be there for you 100% regardless who's with you in the room tell him to grow up. Again just my opinion

[MissouriMommaofthree]

You two are about to experience the most precious moment of your lives. It should just be the two of you in the room. Everone else can wait.

[Autumnbeez]

I'm sure he wouldn't miss his daughter being born, my husband said the same thing and I think they just feel if they told us that then we would do what they want.

[monikacortez]

Nicakr im not saying its not legitimate im saying I dont get why he would be willing to give up his daughter being born

[monikacortez]

No I actually wouldnt mind if he wanted his parents their I dont like his mom either but if he asked and wanted her to be their id say ok I wouldnt fight about it.. but hes not in contact with his mom anymore and his dad wants tp be in the waiting room

[monikacortez]

We want it to be just me and him because its our first and were gonna have another later on and she can be their then... it just puzzles me that he would be willing to miss his daughter being born because of my mom!

[NicaKr]

Would you accept it if he would like to have his mum or dad in the room?
Think his wish is legitimate and to be honest, if my husband would like his mum to be there I would leave as well if I could.
Only People you BOTH feel comfortable with should be in the room.
Especially if your mum gives him grief quite often it would be a shame if she ruins this experience for your husband.

[Brie027]

In my opinion,  it's yours and your boyfriend's baby. He has just a right as you do and I would respect his wishes. Personally,  I only had my husband in the room and the next,  it with be the same. We created the child together,  no one else did and we should be the one's bringing it into the world. If the situation was different, I'd say have anyone in there you wanted!  Lol My mom wanted to be in the room, but my hubby didn't want her to, nothing personal,  and I respected it :)

[blancaboo]

I'm going through the same thing but in my case my mom has been completely evil to my boyfriend and I understand why he feels that way and I respect it. Plus you already are going to have a few people in there watching it happen dont need to add more.

[jackieandbraulio]

Yeah he's just being a little butthead. He wants it his way or no way. It's not just about him it's about you too. I'm personally having my mom there and his mom too although I'd love it to be just my mom simply because she's just my mom I love my mother in law I do she's amazing but its weird for me. Either way they're both going to be there. But the closer I'm getting to my date the more I like the sound of just me and him being there. We'll probably have more kids so if they do or don't they'll eventually have a chance to be there.