insecure :(

[Lacii15]

My fiancé started yelling at me in the car today because i guess i ask too many questions and i have been too clingy and stuff since i got pregnant and he said he feels like he can't be a human being anymore and it made me feel awful. I know that he wasn't trying to hurt my feelings. Hes been trying to deal with it but he just ran out of cigarettes and was on edge. He said that i never acted the way i am now before i got pregnant, and i really don't want to act the way i am now anymore. I don't want to make him unhappy... But i just feel so insecure and uncomfortable with my big belly already because twins. The size of it makes me feel so ugly and feeling ugly makes me sad and being sad just makes me want to be near him and close to him for comfort. I feelso pathetic :( ... And for some reason i just don't want him to go to his friends without me anymore i just want him near me all the time. Its nothing to do with trust i just feel like i need him with me. Sorry that was a vent. I love him so much and never wanna see him unhappy. I seriously have to fix my attitude lately.

[Lacii15]

That's so sweet :)

[army_mommy_to_be]

I have always been clingy but now my hubby understands, he has gotten more happy about me being pregnant. He's more protective and sweet. And I'm in that akward stave where my bump is growing but still I have a slot of squishy and I feel horrible about myself and when I'm with him he always has his hand on my tummy and asking the baby to move. Don't worry your not alone

[Lacii15]

Thanks ladies. I'm so glad i have this app!

[Kristy112]

Btw. Theres nothing more annoying to guy than talking and explaining something tooooo much. Dont do that or he will run from You and avoid You. Better ask him about his day or make him feel little special. Otherwise everything is just about babies and pregnancy, but trust me, guys are soo human, they need attention and respect too. Good luck!:)

[Kristy112]

I know the feeling, its awful. Trust me, there is only one thing that helped me - I started to read the Bible. Yes, The Bible. In English, I guess it is called the book of Salaman. Dont know exactly, but it is in the middle of Bible (before or after Psalms, as I remember) try it!:)❤

[Mogpog]

Have you told him exactly what you wrote here on WHY you're acting this way? He obviously doesn't understand and so to him it's just annoying but he can't know the why unless you tell him. If you have told him, talk to him about it again but try and explain it differently so he'll maybe understand this time.

[Kos2Kos]

I was like that my first and second pregnancy, more The first time since i was getting post partum depression when i was 6 months pregnant. Even though you dont want to be so clingly you just feel comfortable with him there with you. I warned my boyfriend that i could be come that way. But you should talk to your dr about how you feel. Just incase post partum depression does start showing itself.