just a vent about fil

[holly_ett]

I tried to post this earlier but I dunno if it worked but here goes again. Today my fil shows up unannounced and without calling first which I have asked him not to do cause some times im not dressed appropriately. He demands to take my 3 yr old daughter with him while he gets a hair cut and I tell him no. I have told him many times that Tuesdays he can't take her cause I work at 3 and they need to eat and take their naps early. Besides who is going to look after her while he sits there and gets his hair cut? He told me not to worry about that but of course im going to worry about that im her mother. He then continues to say well im not going to pick up u and the kids so I can go to work which totally screwed me over for work tonight so I had to call in and try to explain what was going on which I know they don't care about cause they just want a person there for the shift. So,of course I didn't let him take get cause u can't just threaten not to take the kids so I cant go to work and get your way. I can't believe howhow much he screwed me over today and how nasty he got just cause he didn't get his way. I let him take her all the time and he sees her all the time so im not trying to keep her from him but what he did today was so unacceptable. Srry im just so mad oh and to add he was telling my daughter to go get her shoes on after I said no and putting her in an awkward situation cause she was confessed on wheather to get her shoes on or not. U shouldn't put a child in the middle of a adult conversation, ok thnx vent over

[holly_ett]

Yes I called my husband who was at work and told him what happened and he said he will be talking to his dad tonight. I called up my friend to tell her what happened and for now on she is going to come over on Tuesdays and look after the kids till 6 when he gets home. She is like a sister to me and my kids love her so I figure why put myself in this situation with my fil again. Who knew such a grown man acted like a child

[ssimms]

Wow he is childish smh I can't believe he made you miss work over that!

[KTowne]

That is completely unacceptable, have you talked to your husband about this?