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Ugh I'm getting tired of constant ****! My fiance first of all decided without talking to me that he was joining the military -.- then today he starts talking **** about my little brother. I'm so tired of little racial comments he makes.. like my brother likes rap music and he makes these little comments saying "hes a wiggler" and "whys he always wantin to be black" I'm like stfu Im white and I have no problem at all with black people, but apparently he has a problem with me having black friends or when I get agurvated by one of his racist jokes.. :'( alot is hormones ik but I just can't ignore it anymore he's just a big bully to people.. its not me he's mean to but it still makes me mad and idk what to say without starting a full blown argument (everytime we fight he's like go Mary a black Guy, go have a baby with a black Guy.. and its annoying he just takes his racial comments to far)
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It ain't hormones...ur dealing with an ignorant man...Deep inside he feels inadequate to the black man is the problem!!!!....hope he doesn't teach that **** to ur kid
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It ain't hormones...ur dealing with an ignorant man...Deep inside he feels inadequate to the black man is the problem!!!!....hope he doesn't teach that **** to ur kid
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4818131 tn?1373730422
I know how you feel. My bf always says racial comments as well and I have a half black sister! He likes her but not her dad but I don't like him either lol bit we'll be out in public and he won't say the n word but he'll be like there's so many black people here or it smells like black people...omg I get so embarrassed I just wanna die. Hes so mean. So don't worry your not alone!
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Yea I just don't know he wont hit me and never has. He never even talks down to me its just his comments that get.to.me
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Lol my ex husband told me that when he was beating on me a few years ago. And here i am with a black man and having his baby and although he has his mood swings, he would lay down his life for me and my other two kids. So screw him.
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^^ be just says it's my hormones and he doesn't understand why I'm getting mad about it
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5604696 tn?1378685626
He sounds terrible. My little brother is half black, and he is the sweetest kid. im sorru tjat your bf is acting like that. Maybe try sitting doen with him in a calm setting and tell him your feelings, and that it stresses you out when he talks like that. And mention that stress is not good for the bby
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