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[tiana15]

Fills like I need to be working not just my husbandd :/

[jessicasutton]

Yeah I don't have my parents or his parents around either, the only time w would be able to go out is when we decide to spend the weekend at our hometown and that's 3-4 hours away

[fangeorgetevin_1]

I feel the same way cnt wait to make my own money again the lil income I have is only enuff to pay my rent n bills with its so stressful cuz I want so much more glad im due in 19 days so work shouldnt be far behind that

[OctoberBaby5]

I have no family here just my mom who works all day everyday and my sister who already has a baby and I dont trust her.. I meant my hubbys family lol Theyre crazy

[jessicasutton]

I will let family babysit but only mine or his parents and most likely for only a couple of hours. I know I will need to spend some sort of alone time with my husband. Gotta keep the love alive lol

[OctoberBaby5]

Yeah I know huh.. I only feel like this now bc when Averie is here im gonna wanna spend all day with her bc im not letting ANYONE babysit not even my family.

[jessicasutton]

I know what you guys are saying. I loved my job, most of the ppl were great to work with pretty easy job, didn't get paid a lot but at least it helped a little when needed, and i got the exercise that I needed. I went on vacation for 2 weeks from work because I was getting married and when I came back from my "honeymoon" I had a doctors and ultrasound appt. My doctor ended up telling me that I couldn't work anymore, I was on bed rest from now on. I was on bed rest at 26 weeks, I'm 33 weeks and 3 days now. I feel helpless and bored all the time. My husband makes good money too so I am able to stay at home but I hate to see him get stressful when money gets low before his next paycheck. The worse part is I won't be going back to work when our daughter is born and a little older because we don't really have family around us to help take care of her and I have trust issues so I know I wouldn't be able to let some stranger watch over my child.

[OctoberBaby5]

I cook everyday already lol I was raised like that since I was little so im used to it but I still feel like I have sooo much time in my hands

[FinessLeslie]

Don't feel useless! It's only temporary anyway. If you still feel useless, bake him something and Cook for him. Not every day of course, but here n there. I do currently work...only 12weeks but I remember when I stopped and I had to occupy myself until Jiavonnie was born. Trust me, you are far from useless...besides, your body is on a full-time job as we speak.

[OctoberBaby5]

I mean im not saying he shouldn't work im just saying I wish I could bring some type of secondary income to help.. im 28+3 and you?

[tiana15]

Samee here I dont think he should be working I think us female should to how many month are u

[OctoberBaby5]

I know! Im used to working and I actually enjoyed working cause I had an easy steady job but now doctor said I couldn't so I quit and im home ALL DAY! And I hate depending on my hubby 100% I mean he makes good money so we dont struggle but I feel useless :/

[tiana15]

Ughh me to im just here with two dogs and white walls in tv lol

[OctoberBaby5]

I hate not working :/