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just happy not pregnancy related

Ok my fiance and I were dropping our son off at his birth mom's apartment and he dropped me off at taco bell right next to her house because every time we get in the same room with landon he won't go to her, cries, throws a fit etc, etc. so he has his camera on to prove to me that she still has a thing for him but I just wouldn't believe it for some bizzar reason (I did believe it I just didn't think landon acted like he said landon does) and as soon as he took landon out of his seat he tried to dart out of the gated area and back to burger king where he knew I was and screamed mama then refused to go to her well ok so that was out of the way, yeah they caught him. Well then you see her, in full view of the camera that she had no idea was there, go up behind him and grab his no nos then ask if he wants to step inside for a quick minute since (I) wasn't there, for old times sake. first off she's engaged to her current boyfriend, second off he's engaged to me and she knows it. and I completely expected him to do it and I wouldn't have held it against him since we haven't had sex in almost two months but instead he stepped away from her, turned around and told her politely "no I'm not like you and I never want you back and I've told you that in no way do I want you and the only reason I still talk to you is because you lied to court and now I'm forced to, not by my own want or will but because of that and only that" then he said good bye to landon, who was crying and screaming inside the apartment and told him to be good then left to pick me up. and he didn't brag about it or anything he just seemed a little off and upset until we got home and I watched the video I left out a few parts like she doesn't think our baby is his or anything but still I'm so happy and proud ^_^ mad at her though
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Such a good future hubby. It shouldnt matter how long you both havent had sex, pregnancy does that to us and the guys should understand. I give him kudo points for denying her and making it clear he wants nothing to do with her other then for their child together. I feel so bad for the little one wanting you so bad! She must not be nice to him or something to make him want you so much more then her.
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I go through this sort of situation daily.. I have raised my step son for the last 3 years. His "mother" rather choose guys and partying before her kids. She has been homeless several times she's let her boyfriends lay their filthy hands on my step son and she still comes and acts like a mom to him and will be around for 2 days and won't be for 2 months..she used to text my fiancé saying "wanna have a three some" "come over" "wanna ****" all thee time just so I could see the messages.. needless to say he ignored them but when someone is raising your kid how can you be so sick to want to text someone that way...now I'm pregnant and officially look pregnant & I just love when she's around bc its not just her in his life forever now :))) keep your head up!
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Aw<3 that's really great. I mean. I hate his ex for you, but I love him<3 there's absolutely nothing better than a man who defends your relationship. If it makes you feel any better, my fiancé's ex wife seems to love calling me a skank and chattering with his parents about how our baby probably isn't his, either. -_- people are just lovely.
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btw landon is only two years old and as soon and she started collecting money from welfare for him she left both him and his dad to go partying and that stuff and had to be paid for just a few hours to watch him so we could work
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