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so scared

I went to the doctor yesterday and the baby had no heart beat and the 2 weeks before there was a heart heat the doctor said my fluid is low and that i most likely will have a miscarriage my head is going crazy i am so lost i am only 8 weeks and i just cant stop stressing and crying my body is numb nothing will calm me down
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Yes I had ultrasounds bc the dr cldnt find a heartbeat currently 32wks as of today try to stay calm
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There is still plenty of room for baby to hide. Like someone else said...if you didn't get an ultrasound to confirm, don't stress!!!  Even at 12wks some Dr's won't hear the heartbeat at EVERY visit!! Stay calm...and see another Dr if you feel it would help!!
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at 8 weeks there should be a heartbeat. yes its early but u should still have a heart beat... im sorry..hopefully everything works out.
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The two appointments before this there was a heart beat
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Unlesss there was no heartbeat via ultrasound I would not worry. I mean 8weeks is very early.
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Thank you guys it helps alot i am just so upset my mind is going crazy i  trying to keepmy mind off it i am came to work today but i dont think it was a good idea
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Try seeing another doctor.  Request an ultrasound.  Hope everything works out.
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Praying for you. I was in your situation almost 2 years ago. Its hard but please calm down and relax. Sometimes the position of the baby makes it difficult to find the heartbeat.
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Just eat healthy drink lots of water take your prenatal pills and stay at bed rest
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Try an relax take a shower,get some fresh air. Think POSITIVE drink LOTS LOTS of water. Do not stress that will not help.  
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I'm praying for you jazzijazz23! That is terrifying & I would continue to make doctors appts to follow up that everything is okay. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.. Have faith & everything Will be okay :)
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But there was a heart beat the past two weeks then non at all it seems to be ever other week my doctor has me so scared and gives me bad news the doctor did not even make me another doctor's appointment elses i start to bleed like is the doctor really doing everything he can they wanna give me a pill to speed up the miscarriage and i wont take it idk what to do
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Plz be calm an take it easy its harder to hear a heart beat that early as long as theres no blood everything is ok
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