Aa
i'm a first time mom so i need help!
Ok so i'm 7weeks today and me & my husband haven't had sex in like a month because i had a miscarriage when we got pregnant last time and this time when we had sex at the beginning of this pregnancy i spotted and i'm so scared because it reminds me of last time and i don't want to lose this baby! But i'm farther along then what time! So My question is can i have sex?
Lol oh mercy please don't throw up on him. Consult your doctor.
Well he wants the best for our baby too. And he doesn't complain but i can just tell that my husband is sexually frustrated because we use to have sex more then 3times aday and now we don't have sex at all! Im just trying to keep my husband happy because he keeps me happy! But it's definitely not causing trouble in our marriage! I just feel bad.
I would hold off just for sake of baby. Ask your Doc? My hubby is VERY understanding & wants what's best for me and our baby. Your husband needs to do the same. This pregnancy is NOT about him or his needs! He is important but your baby should come first! If he feels his sexual pleasure is more priority than your or your baby safety, you need to reevaluate this relationship. Best regards to you and your baby.
That's what i was doing until i almost throw up on him so now I've been sticking to lotion And my hand and it's been working for him but now he's tired of it ha wants the real deal! Lol but i tell him he can & he gets sexually frustrated I just can't win for losing
Try oral until you feel comfortable
Yes but i think we should keep waiting because i really dont want to risk my baby over sex. You know? And my husband don't know how to be gentle lol
I've had 2 miscarriages spotting after sex is very common your cervix is so sensitive and full of blood so that's why you do some obgyn's will tell you if you've had a miscarriage to avoid sex in the first trimester but if you are doing it gentle and not rough you should be fine does the spotting stop right away?
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