I really need to vent...baby daddy issues

[jocey_xoxo]

I have had so many ups nd downs with my babys father him talking to other girls,askin them for pics,choosing them over me than running back it seems like he can only be good for so long than he slips up like its hard for him to just be with me this morning he said I smelt like sperm nd got suspicious of me which is stupid because I spent the WHOLE day with my mom nd when I go to his drawer to get a pair of socks I find a pair of underwear that are forsure not mine not even my size.way to small i confrot him he says there mine (wouldnt even fit me not even before I was pregnant!) He says they have been there for awhile which I forsure know is not true because I have been in that drawer countless times he starts calling me a **** a hoe etc for smelling which in his mind I smell like *** and he said that I should know forsure those underwear dont have anything to do with him because he would have his girl in a thong and it would be bigger cuz hes an *** man and she gotta have booty....his exact words nd all he does is say I make him laugh nd he wants me to move out as soon as I can when he knows I have no where to go nd when he left the house he sent me a bunch of mean txts:( im 30 weeks pregnant I really dont wanna deal with this...

[laaaaaa]

I've just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant me and the baby's farther are having a lot of ups and downs at tho moment this is putting a lot of stress on me.. I've previously found out he was cheating while accusing me of doing it.. which I would never have done to him.. he's putting a lot of stress on me at the moment with all the ignorance.. I'm finding this really hard to cope with. I've tried asking him if we can talk but I've had no reply :/. He wants to support the baby but not me.. its so hard to let go of somebody that you really do love and your carrying the baby.. anybody got any ideas please xx

[Daniellerene]

You surely don't need that stress right now , and if he is gonna run around and act like a child and not step up I would have a serious talk with him about everything ... tell him it's either he steps up and is with you and the baby or nothing at all .. cause you deserve way better treatment than that . ( they say a Mom becomes a mother when she finds out and they saya Dad becomes a father when he holds his child ) so maybe tthat's the case ... like he is scared and trying to mess around to make sure he isn't missing out on anything grant you he Iis doing it wrong but maybe he is just doing it his way :/ either way I'd sit down and talk too him about how he is making you feel and how all of this is effecting you and your emotions.  

[Munchkinn94]

It seems like whenever a man gets caught it's automatically our fault. I'm pretty sure a woman knows her own underwear, considering we go through and look for the ones we like. You're pregnant and you deserve so much better than that! If a man can't commit to a woman even after knowing she's carrying his child, then he's not worth the pain. I hope he can either grow up for good or you find somewhere to stay. Just stay positive for your little one. Everything will work out in the end (:

[keys96]

If I were u I would show him something better than I could tell him he is rude and I kno he is your child's father but is would leave him alone as soon as possible