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partner mad over sex

Do any of you just not have a desire to have sex since you've been pregnant? well I don't and my boyfriend gets so mad at me because I won't have sex with him and I'm just wondering if any of you guys experience the same problem and how you handle it?
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i have wanted sex more and that has not been easy on us. Hubby works a lot of hours so it can be tough to have time. Also now that im pushing almost 7 and half months its a lil awkward with certain positions with a rounder bigger belly.  Either way we all have needs but on the other hand we both have to be understanding. Have you thought about other ways than sex? maybe playing together or giving him oral? You don't have to have sex to have an orgasm. Good luck! I wouldnt want to leave my man hanging either. You carry a baby 40 weeks and thats a long time for a couple to be sexless.
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If the guy can't wait for you to feel like having sex and you feel it's your responsibility to have sex just to make him happy then what you gonna do after you have the baby and you can't have sex for 6 weeks?! Just saying
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It's not my "job" to satisfy my husband, if its a chore it feels more like a job. Yes we aren't handicapped, but we are going through a lot and so is our bodies.  If a man cant understand that, I'm sorry.  I love my husband, and I show him how I feel in different ways. Sex isn't the only way to show love and affection.  I'm sure eventually my sex drive will return, but for now he needs to be understanding.  
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That is not immature for a woman to want to satisfy her Man wewe are pregnant not handicapped, of course he should be understanding but it is selfish to use as an excuse for everyday, you can find other ways to be intimate or more comfortable positions it's a compromise you should not with hold intimacy for long periods of time and just expect him to get over it how is that love people as human nature have a physical need to connect and though men shouldn't cheat you must be realistic why bring those kinds of thoughts or vulnerability to your relationship just my thoughts I hate women who get pregnant and think the world must revolve around them back in the older times women survived in way more strenuous conditions.
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Omg I can't stand sex at this point And my boyfriend gets exactly the same way. I give in after a few weeks to kinda "reset the clock"
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Im the opposite i be wantin sex all the time while im 37 wks but my husband wants to wait after the baby is born but i wont be able to sex him for about two months the only thing i do for him is suck him n jack him but what about my needs i wanna be pleased in my area smh not fair yo.
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I get that way and sometimes I would just give in so I didnt hear my husband complain lol. Lately though I have been the 1 wanting it not him. Pregnancy hormones!  =)
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Lol I don't think it's immature. I just want to do my part as his wife. If you don't feel the same that's fine. I just said it was *my* view. I know my guy won't cheat. I just want to make him happy. He does so much for me while I'm miserable.
Everyone is different. Just because we think different things doesn't mean one of us is wrong.
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I haven't felt like sex in months, yes my husband makes comments about it, but I'm really not able to give it to him at this time.  I feel nausea a lot, and just feel sick.  He understands. I couldn't imagine giving it to him when I really don't want it to keep him from cheating.  We are pregnant, it's not like we're withholding sex because it's fun to make him suffer.
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If u don't feel like it right now he is going to have to get over it! Never mind 'id rather give it to him rather than him going somewhere else' that's an extremely immature way of looking at it as if you thought for a second he may cheat just because he's not getting sex for a few month then you wouldn't really be having a baby with him would you! Just tell him you will more than make up for it when you feel better ;-) x the whole thing is probably making him insecure so just make sure you reassure him in other ways x
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I felt the same way in my 1st trimester, but in the second I feel better. Idk, I feel like just because I don't feel like it he shouldn't have to suffer. There are so many posts on this community where women complain about their husband/boyfriend cheating. I rather do my part to satisfy my husband rather than have him look elsewhere.
That's my view on it.
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I have the same problem. I'm at the point where he can grow up and get over it on his own. when I do give in I can't get into it because it's painful and he complains because I don't really want it. can't seem to make him happy, so I save myself the physical pain and he can figure it out for himself.
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I feel the same do to the bad nauseas I have. But I make him understand
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