I feel the same way, its a very private & special moment for the MOTHER & FATHER let the mother be the one to spread her happiness. Family doesn't understand that just because they are family it doesn't take away from the parents moment but it does. I don't want anyone posting or taking pics of my son when he's born.
I completly understand. I told my fiance that hes going to be the only one in the delivery room. Thats our private moment as parents not anyone else. And as for photos i feel the same as you. I dont pictures of my child all over facebook and text messaging before i am ready. Honestly i dont know if i want pictures of my daughter on facebook at all.