advice..Not really anything dealing with pregnancy

[Jr23861]

Ok so I know our emotions get to us..
but today my bf and I talked and he claims that iv been really grumpy and mean.. but to be totally honest I really don't think iv been grumpy.  I think he's just been on edge and letting things bother him.. idk I kinda feel like we are getting farther apart. I tried talking to him about being more positive and he basically said that his whole life has been nothing great. But he still try to put it on me..

[Jr23861]

Thanks everyone.

[FloridaMommyof2]

I'm in the same boat with my fiancé. Last night our friend asked if I was a moody pregnant woman. And to my surprise he says yes that I'm Moody all the time. Lol I don't see it. But we get in more arguments over little stuff. It gets better

[KateFerrera]

I swear, men just don't get it. It's like come on, you did this to me now you want to rant about how bitchy I'm being? Like leave me alone man, I'm tired, I'm hungry, I gotta pee, I don't feel like getting up, I'm annoyed.. I could go on and on! Lol my husband always always always is so mean to me when I ask him to do something for me like "can you please put a poptart in the toaster for me baby?!" His responce is always "why should I? You're being so f ucking mean to me!!" And then I start crying and he will do it.. I can't help it! Haha

[vicdk32]

Sometimes our hormones get to us but sometimes they have worst ones then us. My bf is just a jerk we honestly go back and forth some days we're so in love and other days we are at each other like wolves. Sometimes a baby can make two ppl realize they were never meant to be no matter how hard it hurts. But if u honestly love each other I would just fight through it because at the end when your in the hospital and you guys are just holding your baby it makes you stronger.

[miracle_mommy2014]

Hahaha I can't remember exactly what me and my bf were talking about the other day but idk he was like freaking out over something so small....I told him babe get your hormones in check calm down lol I'm sure they change too even if they don't see it....they blame it all on us but noooo it's them too lol

[KateFerrera]

Oh girl do I relate with you on this 110%!!! My husband always says I'm bitchy and mean.. Which I get because yea I'm hormonal, I'm pregnant, I'm tired, cranky, achey and BLAH!! Us pregnant Mommys don't mean it! & we sure as hell cannot help it!!! No matter what we do we can't control it! It happens! Our hubby's/bfs/baby fathers need to understand that!!! Our bodies are changing and we are baking a miracle! We're bound to have ups and downs!! Sit down and talk to him, that's what I had to do with my hubby

[Jr23861]

Thanks. Iv just been feeling stressed out about This. I mean there's been times that I notice I'm being cabby but I don't feel like I'm really that bad nor everyday.. he even made the comment today that we aren't going to have another kid for awhile due to how I'm takeing the pregnancy. . I feel like he's the one who got the hormone changes lol.

[miracle_mommy2014]

But as for your bf and his life that's not your fault don't let him put it on you....I mean he should be supportive and understand that things are different and they are changing. But it's not your fault so don't let him make you feel bad when you have nothing to feel bad aboit

[miracle_mommy2014]

Me and my bf kinda tend to argue more....he says I'm a b I tch and that I need to calm down.....I personally don't see it lol I mean I know sometimes I'm being a bit more rude not on purpose....it happens....I kinda feel like me and my bf are growing apart....I'm always worried and he tells me to calm down we're good lol maybe it's the hormones idk? But being pregnant has also made me feel like insecure... My sister said when she was pregnant her and her bf fought all the time...I think it just happens maybe sometimes we are being rude or bit chy and we just don't realize it...