Big items. Like a diaper genie, swing, bassinet, sheets. Most people at my baby shower bought me big items that I needed. So I only had to get small stuff like bottles and pacifiers
Dont put clothes on there. Make sure you put diapers and wipes on the list. My favorite gift is a woombie.
If you want to wear your baby put wraps and carriers on there. I got a boba, 7 sling, and a target carrier. Babylist is a good all in one registry I found. Bouncers and swings are good.