sad right?

[celeste_mariee21]

So my boyfriend and his four year old son live with his mom and sister. I am now 19 weeks pregnant and he still isn't wanting to move. Mind you him and his son share a room and a bed. I refuse to move in there so I stay with my parents. Am I wrong for not moving in? Because I think he needs to get us our own home so we all can start a family.

[showard022]

It's techniques not legal where I'm from. Two heart beats to a room. Was a pain in the but because I tried getting a one bedroom apartment later on in my pregnancy and every refused with my first. Had to have 2 bedrooms. Pluss babies come with allot of stuff. That would be way to crowded. I don't think your wrong at all.

[xctedmom]

Im feeling the same way too..im 20 weeks and my bf doesnt mine me at all. He decided to live together after the wedding but the feeling hes giving me makes me feel so sad. He didnt even txt me the whole day. He used to visit me once a week for only a couple of hours or less. Im wondering if he still loves me :(

[nickizzy]

I think it's up to both of you to get your own place not just his responsibility and if money is curren a problem then maybe your current situation is better while you still have to buy baby stuff. Maybe work out budgets and discuss what's going to be best for you all and go from there. But I don't think it makes him less of a man he's looking after he's son and some people just simply can't afford a lot due to whatever circumstances but they shouldn't be labelled for that

[jessijlb1229]

I agree with you complete.  He needs to man up. He has two children now, it is definitely time for him to start supporting his family. I wish you the best but I wouldn't rely on him. You should probably try to have the mind set of you being the only one to support your baby. That way if he doesn't man up at least you and the baby are taken care of. And if he does do the right thing ya'll will be doing even better.