sad :'(

[MohawkSky]

So me and my fiance were looking on hi fone together and going threw his emails and i noticed alot of email notifications from match.com and flirt.com..... i ignores them at first then noticed alot more recent ones on there. So i asked him why he has those email notifications in there and he got offended and gave me 3 diff excuses. So i asked him again, and he grabbed his fone and took off. So when he gor back i sat down to talk about it and he got defensive again. So i told him i can't believe him if i dont get a straight answer. So he called me a *****, a stupid ***** and a pig. But im 10 wks 6 days pregnant with his second child. Make me wonder... wtf is going on.... so sad :'(

[hellojojo2200]

Wow.im Sorry.that all sounds fishy....especially chaneing his p/w.men can be unbelievable.if hes cheating on u while ur pregnant with his child(or at at all,it certainly dosnt say anything good about him in the least.hoppe things. Get better.

[rebeccaann11]

My thing is if he was cheating hun
Don't you think he would delete before you could look?

[rebeccaann11]

I get email from 50single.com :S (eeww)
match.com
I'll get some random emails from people saying they need help.
It honestly could be spam

[knufrio]

You never know with sites like that though... If you were to go through my email I get sh*t every other day from blackpeoplemeet.com and asiansingles.com I am not black or Asian lol

[shinieshoes]

Cheater cheater pumpkin eater!!! Those are all the signs hun. Especially him being defensive and resorting to name calling. My hubby used to do that. He never actually cheated physically. He was cheating emotionally. He would talk to girls inappropriately on the internet. Him locking his phone is another big sign.  I won't say he will never change because my husband did. He's a totally different person that he used to be! He has to be willing to admit he's wrong and stop before anything will change!  

[lopezladee]

From experience.. had a guy that would get in dating sites and go through and get numbers and message them directly and deactivate the dating sites. I would be looking on the call log online. He can and will delete if he is screwing up.  Yeah if he is doing good give him credit, but I dont want something to be going on and it obliviously hit you hard down the road.  Been there, you have to keep your heart protected honey!!

[Nina159]

I was going to say it can just be spam messages because when I usto go through my husbands phone he get a lot of thoughs messages because he happened to put his email on somthing just one time and now he gets thoughs Annoying l random messages. But the way ur husband handled that situation just seems weirde to me and he making it seem like his hiding somthing

[esorelleinad]

Alarm bells should be ringing. Once a cheat, always a cheat in my opinion!
Do what's right for you and your children. X

[missmossyoak92]

It sounds like he's hiding something if he gets all upset and mad I go through my boyfriend phone just like he does mine and neither of us get up set and for him to change the lock is kinda odd

[megadams]

Do a basic search on the sites for someone in your area that fits his age. Might take awhile but then you'd know. They usually show last log in date on sites like that.

I'm sorry you're going through this.

[nana_love]

My husband let me go through his phone I just really be checking to make sure hes not sending pictures of my baby to his mom (long story). Our phones are password protected be we know eithers its just so people dont go through ours. I would just ask him for his password.

[HappyMommyBear]

i wouldnt suggest looking through his phone.. try to talk to him.. men hates it when you go through their privacy.. they are men.. as long as he isnt cheating with another woman give him the benefit of the doubt.. just make sure to let him know that you trust him and if he breaks that trust, sorry but it would be too hard to gain it back..

[MommyToBe__01]

Uh leave him

[MohawkSky]

He changed the lock on his phone.

[Hannah_sweg]

Look his name up on the website. Or take his phone when hes sleeping. Go through the sh*t and if he's cheating divorce his scuzzy a**.
never ever tolerate a cheater.
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