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[twinsohlord]

So we all may or may not know my bf cheated and I'm still very hurt I wake up n I just stare at him like I just want to hit him in the face my feelings are so crushed cause I've had feelings for him since I was 15 now I'll be 24 next month I just don't know how to deal cause I love him n hate him at the same time

[BearHunterMomma27]

Lol I find it funny people would actually tell someone all guys cheat. That's not true. Just bc they have bad taste in men and date little boys who can't zip up their pants doesn't mean every man has no restraint. Its sad people actually think that's normal. Its def not normal and no woman should stay with a man that has cheated. You deserve better momma. don't settle for anything less then you deserve like some of these ladies are telling you to do. They obviously have no self respect.

[Makalia22]

Ok not all men cheat. And if all you are with a man who cheated in you, why wouldn't you want better for yourself and your child.  If you want your relationship to work its both of you who need to want it because you don't want to keep cheating on you 5 years down the road. So look forward to your future and the future you want for your baby.  Do you really want to put your baby what your going through right now?

[jordyvi0824]

^^ exactly! Wow just cause some guys cheat doesn't mean all guys cheat that's a ridiculous accusation! You need to find a guy that's not a complete douche bag! If a guy 100% love you and cares and trusts you they don't feel the need to cheat don't go around saying all guys cheat that's just stupid!

[shellc428]

Yeah not ALL men cheat.  Thats not very good advice.  Immature douche bags cheat.  
You need to decide if this is something that will eat you up everyday and make you resent him. Or get past it over time and try to mend your relationship.   But if you decide to stay,  you can't throw it at him all the time. Because then there's no point to staying.  I'm extremely sorry for you. I couldn't imagine the pain. You just have to choose if your staying or going. And stick with your choice.

[jaszygirl]

I meet my bd wen I was 18 im 23 now and still rockin with him. He cheated true enough but u gotta out weigh ur good and bad. I hated him for so long but still find my self loving him. He gives me the same butterflies as if we jus met. I cried constantly and he saw how bad he hurted me. I told him how I felt because I knew I didn't deserve that. But he has gotten his act together for our new baby and we havent had problems since. Not sayin every thing is perfect but we on the same page right now.

[caligirl2657]

I agree with abcde2014 I've never met a man who hasn't cheated....it doesn't matter if they have a beautiful woman who is model material they'll still cheat???? Idk why but they do!! I would give him another chance for the sake of your feelings and your child. But in the end its YOU has to make the choice. One thing you can't do is rant on and on about what he did it will only tear you further apart

[reshaytito]

If your feeling real down and out a good thing to do is talk to your partner let him know that it still bothers you and try to work it out together instead of you trynna work it out by yourself if you love each other it'll all work out it takes time

[abcde2014]

All guys cheat. The fact that he is still with you means that you're the one that he really cares about.

[twinsohlord]

I'm trying to I'm all in love by bed time then I wake up feeling so hurt like what did I do to deserve this

[ceci58]

I say make up your mind beforr the baby gets here. The sooner you make up your mind the less you'll stress and will be able to focus on the baby