Planned On Getting A Paternity Test & I'm Scared!

[Temz21]

Okay so I know who the father of my baby is. The last time I had sex was on April the 18th/19th and I did not have sex with anyone else since or before then, so there is no doubt that I'm confused as who the father of my baby is. But he all of a sudden doesn't trust me, cos someone I called best friend called him and told him a whole bunch of lies. But to cut the story short I'm freaking out just thinking about getting a paternity test done although I do know who the father of my baby is. Oh I'm 25 weeks pregnant and last had sex on the 18th/19th of April, just in case anyone wants to do the math.

[Temz21]

Awww our due dates are not far apart. Yeah I really hope that's how it turns out :)... Thank you for being here for, sometimes little conversations mean alot :)

[DenziWife]

im due the 1St of january and i know i concieved between the 5th and 13th of april everything will be  fine, he's gonna love the baby even more becuz he's gonna hate he doubted it

[Temz21]

Yeah I hope so too :)... He was saying the other day that he's not denying the baby is his cos obviously we did have sex but he's 50% sure and 50% unsure. I tried looking for you but there's a lot of Emily Delaney's Lol... Add me if you can 'Temitayo Ajewole' I live in London :)...

[Temz21]

Your baby sounds beautiful and im sure he is in real life. Yeah when men accuse us of doing something turns out their the ones doing it. Yeah some human beings can be too rude and nosey.

[Temz21]

Why do men do that? When I first told him I was pregnant he was happy then a couple days after he says I'm seeing someone else and I sleep around.  Only because he heard stories about my ex which was 2 years ago when I was 19 I'm now 21 and he wants to bring up the past. Yeah to be honest now I literally can't wait to get that dna test done.

[Temz21]

Yeah its true I shouldn't worry about anything. I'm due on the 7th of January. How about you?

[EmilyDelaney]

Some people love drama! Look hopefully everything works out, at the end of the day the minute them results come back and he realizes he's wrong he won't be long sucking up to you! Yes you can see my name anyway haha, I live in limerick,Ireland anyway if you try to add me so you'll know which one haha

[number3andme]

I'm black brown sKin and my ex husband is the same when my son was born blonde hair blue eyed it was the beginning of the end he thought I cheated after I paid for a paternity test and it confirmed he was our son I found out he was cheating but I love my son he Has  nappy Grayish hair light skin green eyes and looks just like both of us but u find out how rude people r people would come up to me when he was an infant and say is that your baby is he white or is he albino

[addysmama04]

I had to go through it with my first. I knew there was no doubt he was the father but he accused me of cheating when it was him who cheated. Needless to say he was stuck paying the test bill and when I got those results in the mail I was elated and you will be too.

[DenziWife]

im 25 weeks also nd i know how u feel i was  a little nervous when i First got pregnant, but if he was the only One u had Sex with in April i wouldnt worry....when are you due?

[Temz21]

Yeah she's a bad friend, and when I confronted her about it she got all defensive. Awww it's good you get along with his family :).Yeah I don't doubt that my love won't be enough for my child but when he's abit older and he asks me questions about his dad, not that he has totally disappeared from the picture but I never pictured me having my first child this way :(... Yeah I can't wait for that dna test now and I'll make him apologise for all the **** he's put me through. Girl power indeed haha. Are you on Facebook or anything? :)

[EmilyDelaney]

Well you don't need a friend like that anyway! You know what to do ;) I don't even talk to the father unless he's looking for attention off me haha pathetic men! But I talk to him family so its fine :) as they say they always come back haha! You'll be fine! A mother is all a baby needs, just shove that paper into his face and **** what everyone has to say! :) Girl power ;)

[Temz21]

Omgsh we are actually in the same boat, my ex is the father of my baby too. Not that I regret it cos he was nice to me but my so called friend messed everything up by feeding him with incorrect facts and now he obviously has his doubts. We talk all the time but it ***** that it's turnt out this way. I can't wait to prove him wrong but he's still going away next year to Canada and I live in London so I'm basically going to be a single parent whether proven wrong or not. I'm just scared...

[EmilyDelaney]

I'm kinda in the same boat... My ex is the father unfortunately and his family know he's the father and so does he... At the start he was denying it! So I said about the DNA just so I can shove it into everyone's face that believed him! At the end of the day we've nothing to hide ;) but I'm the same I want to make sure the dna is 100% reliable lol x

[Temz21]

I know but this is all new for me I've never been through this before. I'm a mixture of scared and hurt at the same time.

[scarletbegoniass]

That's odd that you're scared if you're 100% positive who the father is lol. Don't worry. It will be a good feeling to have proof anyway.

[Temz21]

Thanks that's exactly what I have to do :) x

[EmilyDelaney]

Get it done just so you can stick the piece of paper into his face and prove them all wrong! :)