heartbroken

[my1stbaby_]

So i texted my baby father an told him i had a doctor's appointment cominf up and ask him did he want to go . He texted back asking me was i getting an abortion he thinks that would be best. Yhat hurt so much , i mean honestly when i found out i was pregnant abortion was definitely somthing i was thinking about but now i couldn't imagine doing that . An i feel like i just got hit by a bus i feel like crap knowing that a man years older than me wants nothing more to do with me or atleast a child we created together . Im hurt . Im at work so i cant cry but i just want to bust into tears

[AngieRose95]

When the father of my child found out I was pregnant he kept begging me and begging me to have an abortion. He even put a gun to his head and yelled "I'll do it angelica! Because if you keep this thing my parents are going to try and take my daughter from me!" I'm 17 weeks and to this day his family keeps saying "things would be a lot happier and easier if you had only had the abortion. **** your beliefs" long story short I am no longer associating myself with him or his family. My family is getting ready to welcome my baby into their lives and I couldn't been happier.

[TruMommie]

Sweety it's his lost your child is a blessing and he will pay for treating you and his child that way it may not be today or tomorrow but he will. Just take it as lesson learned it is going to hurt but cut ties with him he doesn't deserve the chance to know your child I'm sure your baby will be loved plenty because a mothers love is stronger than anything on this earth just remember time is irriplaceble and change can happen to late.

[abcde12344]

When I first told my partner he told me to get an abortion and move out of our house but I wouldn't anyhow iv gave him time to think he's excited with it now so I think if you just give him time :)

[GabbyLawrence]

i dont blame you from feeling like you do!..first i want to say congrats for deciding to keep your baby:)
if this guy doesn't want to be in your life or the baby's life, then I would just forget about him and move on. there is no shame being a single mother, single mothers are strong! he might be scared, but its your body and if you have decided to keep the baby then its up to him if he wants to be there or not. at the end he's going to be the one missing out on the most special thing in life. and of course if you're smart make sure you put him on child support!!:) haha...goodluck girl! be strong

[avasmomma8]

You're going to be so happy when you finally have that baby and you will be so overwhelmed with joy that you will look back on this and think how stupid it is to even be hurt by such a jerk. God has a plan for you and your precious child. If that man wants to be a supportive loving father then good but if not then you will be just fine without him. You don't need someone in your life that is going to tell you to murder your child.

[BabyWidmer]

I understand exactly. My sons dad wanted me to get an abortion and offered to pay. It hurts but focus on baby:)

[GenesisAbigail]

Buddy Wakefield,  I recommend it

[Naybabe_84]

I know it can be so difficult dealing with that type of rejection. I did with my last pregnancy with my husband and myself. I hated myself for it for a long time. Keep in mind that it's your baby and your going to live your baby no matter what. People come in go out your life but your children stay and they love you unconditionally like you do them.

[GenesisAbigail]

If you really want your baby,  the best thing for you to do is pull yourself up and be strong, if you stress yourself out it might not be healthy for the baby. I know is easier said than done but **** it you have someone else that depends on you now and that baby matters more than you and anybody else in this world. Like a poem I love to read said,  hearts don't break, they bruise and then get better,  you are not a tragedy you are just an emergency,  and one day you will look back and call 911 to tell them you are having a fantastic time.

[babyherrera1]

Stay strong and try an stay positive.  Things happen for a reason they say...it'll all work out. :)

[chelyyy]

My babys fathers mom told me to get an abortion and she would pay for it. That hurt me so much. But she came around and now is planning my baby shower. Hopefully he comes through and if he doesn't he is missing out. Don't worry and blame yourself. Right now you have to worry about you amd your baby. When you have your baby in your arms its gonna be worth it. Just try not to worry. All you can do for him is pray. Im sorry girl.