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all I want is answers :'(

I dont know if my baby is dead or alive, the last two weeks have been so crazy... iv been in hospital, have had surgery because of an ectopic pregnancy to then wake up from sugery being told they only found a cyst and dont know were my baby is ... I have been bleeding alot and cramping, but still my hcg levels rise slowly. I have been told by doctors to watch and see if I pass the sack that is in my uterus, others say I have twins, others say my cyst was the baby, others just strait out tell me they dont know nothing makes sense ....they cant see my baby in the sack and im only just on 5 weeks ... others say my baby may still be alive, but I am showing strange symptoms ... all the time I am waiting ... waiting ... waiting ... Idk what to think or feel anymore .... where is my baby ??
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what did the symptoms of the cyst feel like ? I had an ovarian cyst before and it it way worse pain than labor i thought i was going to die ! And five weeks is still early and that sounds regular to get bleeding and cramps around that time . Dont stress about it ! Continue to take prenatal vitamins take care of yourself and pray . ill be praying everything turns out good for you :)  
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Im in  Australia sadly :( thankyou everyone because I am terrified and I cant help but feel empty ... they still cannot tell me whats going on yet they wanna do a scan again even though im only new to 5 weeks amd I feel just overwhelmed ...im still finding myself emotional and tired
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Sorry to hear your going through this. I went through the exact same thing twice the first one did happen to be an ectopic and the second time they never found the baby. It took me 4 yrs going in and out of the hospital for pains I would get for all the surgery I had. Like you no Dr would know what was wrong or why they couldn't find the baby, but Luckily I found a really great Dr that answer what I had why I went through all that. He was able to help me get pregnant have a 2yr old son and pregnant with my second one. Are you from San Antonio if yes look this Dr up Dr mayank Pandya. Right now the baby too small get plenty of rest to control the cramping let 3 more weeks pass and get an ultrasound to see if they're able to see the baby.
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I'm praying for you and your baby. It's hard not to be stressed and but have faith.
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I was pregnant with twins in 2012 and was under the impression that i had lost both of my babies. I had heavy bleeding and cramps so bad i couldn't walk. A few weeks later i went in for a check up and was shocked to find out that one baby was still alive . I couldn't believe. To this day my son has been a miracle!! There is always hope!!  Keep your head up!! I will be praying for you!!
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Prayers for u and ur baby just pray and have faith in god and watch everything will turn out good
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I'm in a similar.... I went about a weeks ago and they found my yolk sac but no baby... Said I was 6wks & 2day  now I'd be 7 weeks so just still think your baby's there but keeping in mind that it is possible it isn't pray and pray that's all you can do keep your headup.
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I am 17 weeks pregnant and experience vaginal discharge almost every day and abdominal pain on my right side from time to time, is this something to be worried about?
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I am praying for you I hope your baby is okay :(
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As long as your hcg levels are rising you should b fine let the Drs worry about everything and just know your levels if there was no baby the levels would not rise God bless you
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Something similar happened to me at the beginning of my pregnancy, they thought it was an early sign of miscarriage or an ectopic pregnancy but it was just early bleeding (Thank god!!!) Now I am going to 19 weeks with a healthy active baby inside my belly.......prayers to you and that growing bby inside of you
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The fact that your hcg levels are rising is a good sign you are still pregnant.
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Stay calm whatever your mind thinks is what your body will think, I bet your baby is fine just hiding, just think positive, not negative. Always think good thoughts.
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Woww you're n my prayers I know its hard but try not to stress
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I'm so sorry you are going through all of this. I hope you get an answer soon. Just try to stay calm and breath. If the baby is still there he/she is just so small so that would be why they couldn't find the baby. Just pray and hope it all works out. Stress won't help you or your body
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