I am definitely this way my husband is always asking for it and I always feel bad that I tell him no. When we do have sex I can't wait for it to be over with and he always wants me to like do my thing but he isn't fat but he got a slight belly and my belly is huge at this point lol it just isn't comfortable at all lol. Don't feel bad you are definitely not the only one.
Oh your not alone. I cant seem to be ever in the mood. I do because I feel bad for my partner. He understands to a certain point but I can see him getting in a huff about it when I turn him down which is more often than not. I feel uncomfortable and I feel like ive been kicked in the privates once its over. Its pregnancy 100%. No issues prior x
Give him an online article to read if that will help... He needs to be supportive during this time! I'm not crazy far along yet so my sex drive hasn't tanked yet (22 weeks!). But I definitely have days where sex sounds horrible. Haha remember your doing this for both of you, and him "going to get it other places" is insensitive and immature. Real men don't run from their significant others when they don't get what they want! Be strong! This to shall pass :)
Me and my boyfriend have sex all the time like only thing that will turn me off is thinking about the baby but its just hormones right now
There's nothing wrong with yoy it's your hormones my husband an I had sex for the 1st time in like a month or so an I couldn't wait for it to be over with I feel bad but I always refuse to do it to. It'll change once you have the baby. It took me a few months after my daughter was born til I got my full sex drive back
I had that same exact problem, I even got nauseous at the sight of sperm but you just gta talk to him about it and let him know its natural
Next time you go to Doc. Take them with you,bring it up at Doc Office. Let the Doc explain how your body is changing an sex don't feel good to you... that would be easier an he would understand comn from someone else..
Thank god I'm not alone! I don't know how to even explain it to him and he threatens to go get it else where if I don't because he doesn't understand and I can't explain it.I almost feel so bad enough for him to let him do it without being mad
Omg me too.. I actually feel bad for my bf because he wants to do it and i dont. and like you ladies said i do feel uncomfortable.. :(
Im the same way its so uncomfortable to me and hard to enjoy at time too
I hate it too!!! Its hard for me to enjoy!