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sleeping with the enemy

My bf n my 3 yr old son where in my blow up bed in my living room watching cars. I was on the couch since my son likes to jump on the bed thinking its a bounce house . So i fell asleep .. idk some how i woke up n my bf was touching my sons private ! I got up n took the blanket of my son hes diaper was half did . N this ******* pigg of a guy looks at me all suprised n says what .. y are checking him i said hes my son ima check him wen i want . N he gets up and says wow if u r guna think like that then idk if we can be together i stayed quite cus im so angry.. Im pregnant with hes kid u kno n im so angry .. i saw the movement from hes hand to my sons private area .. then he grabs hes keys to the car n hes walet n gos to the oppisite sofa .. i grab my son take him to my room cus  hes asleep .. n i tell this ****** i want my housekey .. i will not call the police but i need u out my home tonite .. litterally i feel like calling my sons real dad so that he can beat this ***** to bits .. n at this point my mom comes out her room n intervines  like tellin me watch ur son talk about it in the morining see thing is im so mad ima kill this guy .. idk wat to do !!! Lord help me if u will !! Im so upset !!! Pls give me advice i feel sick to my stomach ... im christsan n i hope that god can guide me rite now .. and help me threw this cus i feel like walking out this room n killing this s.o.b !!! Someone help me pls wat should i do !!
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First of all, stop-take a deep breath-and pray very hard for calmness. Especially for the baby. What you need to do is call your non emergency hotline in the morning and ask about what you should do. But you don't have to say it was you if you don't want. Just ask for advice. This is my best suggestion. I hope and pray that everything turns out for the best. Love and prayers
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If you are positive in what you saw then I would call the cops. There is no excuse what so ever for an adult to hurt.a child like that. I have no sympathy and.if hes like that you are better off without him. You are his mother and he depends on you. You are strong and he is the one in the wrong. I will pray for you. I cannot imagine waking up to that. Apparently he is sick in the head and needs help.
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I mean I have no sympathy for a man that does that. My heart breaks for you and little man :( good luck Hun.
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I called the hotline and they said cps would be called .. i hve the sick **** out my home but i cant feel peace at this moment i was molested by my older brother for years  n i nvr said anything to anyone till i was 18 n scared to have sex nn i promised god this was nvr guna happen notnot to my kids ever now im living it once again .. look i wish u can take a sec and pray for me n my son i feel like ima go crazy or something cus im shaking n i feel that my body is hot all over .. pls pray for me n my son ..
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I will not leave this alone .. im a good mother n i cant let this guy b off thinking he got away wit it !!
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This gave me chills. Im sorry ur dealing with this. You did the right thing by calling right away and i agree that you should take action right away esp since you have experienced something like this and never told anyone. Did they tell you to take your son to the hospital? I know hes not hurt but sometimes they suggest doing that so they can assess his mental and emotional effects of being touched if there is any. I rrported abuse to my step daughter once and when cps came out they said we should have taken her right to the hospital even if she wasnt hurt just to have it documented because cops have different guidelines when it comes to really young children. You are a wonderful mother for paying such close attention and taking action right away for your son. I will pray for you both good luck and i hope that scumbag stays away from you and your son
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You are a strong woman and you did what it right! I will be praying for you, your son and your baby.  Just remember do not blame yourself. He is the only one in the wrong.  
5550067 tn?1375152780
Good thing you kicked him out! Some men
Feel the sick need to abuse their gfs/wives children from previous relationships.. Deff don't allow him near your son or in the house cuz that's just disgusting!! You're a great mom not like some stupid moms that
allow their man abuse her children just to have a man! Be careful and hopefully everything turns out for the best, with him outta the pic of course..
5739386 tn?1378840060
I'm praying for you in your son. Keep him out if your life especially for the baby too. don't know how long he have been doing that for it makes me feel sick to my stomach just crazy. and good thing you called right away. And with your mom there's not even a need to talk to him in the morning not never.
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"Some how" you woke up.....sweetheart that was God. Your own eyes dont lie. Don't let your son go through what you did. You definitely did the right thing. Also, don't allow your new baby around him either.
5623087 tn?1377892884
That is just sick I'm sorry you had to deal with that and I truly hope your son is ok poor little guy :( I know how you feel with the brother thing my oldest brother did that to me when I was little and my other brother who is closer to my age tried to help me it was very hard to get through and many times I blamed myself but I know it wasn't my fault but I agree with some other ladies on here take the little guy in and have him checked over he may not have physical pain but emotionally he could be a mess even at that age it is very hard to handle something like that even if some people don't think they will understand what happened kids know more than they let on and I personally think he needs to get some form of help to see if he is alright emotionally and such I would get a restraining order immediately for your son your unborn baby and you own good I would b terrified for their safety if I were you best of luck and keep us posted on what happens to this sick *******
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Ur his mother it os ur job to protect and take care of him no matter wat n he comes first dnt let him get away wit this at all
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Im actulally geting discharged from the hospital as i write this its 5.11 am there was most deff child abuse towrds my son! The e.r called the dispatch officer to the hospital to take a full report a cps worker came with the officer . I told them the entire thing i saw detail by detail . My son told the officer my ex told him shhh!! Momma is sleepin .. it brought my sons real dad to tears ..  
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Call the cops! Think of your little boy before anything please. It can lead to so many more problems. What id he takes it a steo too far next time. What if he doesit to someone else. Call them
5946774 tn?1389191535
I am so sorry this is happening to your son. You should call and file a police report and keep him far away from your kids. You never know how long it's been happening for and if he comes back around he could take it further. You are in no way over reacting or being crazy. I would flip if someone ever touched my son! Tell him that it's done and you do not want him around the children file the report in case he ever tries to file for custody because I wouldn't want my child alone with him. Don't risk it hun your not blind you know what you saw.
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Thats horrible. What do u think there gonna do about it?
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U did the right thing!! if anything it was god opening up ure eyes to that.. Keep that sicko away from ure kids n file a report bcz god forbid he does that to other ppls kids or his own! I know u have his bby but u do not need somebody like that in ure life these kids get traumatized by things like these look uve been thru it, ive been thru it n so many other ppll too its something u wish never happens but does but luckaly u caught wereas our parents didnt have a clue! You did a great n ure on the right path be gratful u caught for ureself cz who knows how much more n how much longer this would of kept going!!!!
1938799 tn?1382646543
Umm why wouldn't u call the cops... I would for his safety shoot, if I caught my husband touching our daughter like that I'd call n say u have 2 mins to get here cuz IMA kill this guy seriously
1938799 tn?1382646543
Sorry I didn't read ur update post!!! Glad you're bringing some justice to that sonofabitch! He deserves to rot in hell! After u chop his hands off and feed him to the pigs of course! I'm so sorry for what's happened to u n ur son poor baby I wish u the best and remain strong for ur little guy he needs you!! God bless momma!
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My prayers are with you hun I'm so sorry you have togo through this. You did the right thing going to the hospital nd filing a report. I hope your sons father beats the living s*h*i*t out of that guy
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Omg call the cops! He will loose all rights to your child you can't allow him to even be around your baby!!!!! Omg I'm so sorry!!!
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What state do you live in
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This happen to my son by his own father & I didn't get any help because his family has money & were paying people off even with my sons statements & actions so I just moved away
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I hope everything works out for you
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