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sleeping with the enemy

My bf n my 3 yr old son where in my blow up bed in my living room watching cars. I was on the couch since my son likes to jump on the bed thinking its a bounce house . So i fell asleep .. idk some how i woke up n my bf was touching my sons private ! I got up n took the blanket of my son hes diaper was half did . N this ******* pigg of a guy looks at me all suprised n says what .. y are checking him i said hes my son ima check him wen i want . N he gets up and says wow if u r guna think like that then idk if we can be together i stayed quite cus im so angry.. Im pregnant with hes kid u kno n im so angry .. i saw the movement from hes hand to my sons private area .. then he grabs hes keys to the car n hes walet n gos to the oppisite sofa .. i grab my son take him to my room cus  hes asleep .. n i tell this ****** i want my housekey .. i will not call the police but i need u out my home tonite .. litterally i feel like calling my sons real dad so that he can beat this ***** to bits .. n at this point my mom comes out her room n intervines  like tellin me watch ur son talk about it in the morining see thing is im so mad ima kill this guy .. idk wat to do !!! Lord help me if u will !! Im so upset !!! Pls give me advice i feel sick to my stomach ... im christsan n i hope that god can guide me rite now .. and help me threw this cus i feel like walking out this room n killing this s.o.b !!! Someone help me pls wat should i do !!
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I hope your okay. I had to come back and check your post. My heart goes out to you and your babies.
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5885567 tn?1378687010
Omg im so sorry ur going thru this, im sorry u ever went thru it with your brother ! I know its hard u are having this sick guys baby and hes over here doing that bs..if u ever need anybody to talk to msg me directly ill be more than happy to listen to u, and please take care of yourself remember u have a baby on the way, whatever ur feeling, he or she feels..I will most definitely havr u in my prayers tonight, and tomorrow until I find out justice has been served.
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Stay strong x x
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I'm just so floored... Has he had him alone? What if he's done other things to him like touched his behind and stuff.... Honestly if he's comfortable enough to do it while your laying right there he has done it before ... And I would definately tell the babies father he as a parent has the right to know... I will be damned if my ex knew his significant other was touching my child like that and didn't in form me
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6181204 tn?1389018322
This is the worst thing I've read and although everybody has said this .. I am so sorry you had to go through this situation and I'm so sorry your son had to exp this .. its really sad that you trusted him enough to be around your child, trusted him enough to have his child and he would do this .. I'm just glad you caught him and your taking the right steps to get your son help and make sure you get rid of that man's sorry *** .. you have to protect your children .. ur son and ur unborn because if he's do that to your son with someone else who'd say he wouldn't do that to the child yall have together? Make sure you pray on it and ask god to protect you and your children from all harm and rotten ppl like that scum .. goodluck in your situation, hun
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Omg I'm so sorry that's disgusting,idk what to tell you I wish i could help all i can do is pray for you and your babies and i will!!! Get a restraining order..
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Call the cops. You want his butt in jail for that and not be able to do that to yalls kid
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He sounds like a child melester to me. u need to be strong and put him out now before he does somethin worse
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I hope everything works out for you
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This happen to my son by his own father & I didn't get any help because his family has money & were paying people off even with my sons statements & actions so I just moved away
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What state do you live in
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Omg call the cops! He will loose all rights to your child you can't allow him to even be around your baby!!!!! Omg I'm so sorry!!!
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My prayers are with you hun I'm so sorry you have togo through this. You did the right thing going to the hospital nd filing a report. I hope your sons father beats the living s*h*i*t out of that guy
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1938799 tn?1382642943
Sorry I didn't read ur update post!!! Glad you're bringing some justice to that sonofabitch! He deserves to rot in hell! After u chop his hands off and feed him to the pigs of course! I'm so sorry for what's happened to u n ur son poor baby I wish u the best and remain strong for ur little guy he needs you!! God bless momma!
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1938799 tn?1382642943
Umm why wouldn't u call the cops... I would for his safety shoot, if I caught my husband touching our daughter like that I'd call n say u have 2 mins to get here cuz IMA kill this guy seriously
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U did the right thing!! if anything it was god opening up ure eyes to that.. Keep that sicko away from ure kids n file a report bcz god forbid he does that to other ppls kids or his own! I know u have his bby but u do not need somebody like that in ure life these kids get traumatized by things like these look uve been thru it, ive been thru it n so many other ppll too its something u wish never happens but does but luckaly u caught wereas our parents didnt have a clue! You did a great n ure on the right path be gratful u caught for ureself cz who knows how much more n how much longer this would of kept going!!!!
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Thats horrible. What do u think there gonna do about it?
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5946774 tn?1389187935
I am so sorry this is happening to your son. You should call and file a police report and keep him far away from your kids. You never know how long it's been happening for and if he comes back around he could take it further. You are in no way over reacting or being crazy. I would flip if someone ever touched my son! Tell him that it's done and you do not want him around the children file the report in case he ever tries to file for custody because I wouldn't want my child alone with him. Don't risk it hun your not blind you know what you saw.
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Call the cops! Think of your little boy before anything please. It can lead to so many more problems. What id he takes it a steo too far next time. What if he doesit to someone else. Call them
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Im actulally geting discharged from the hospital as i write this its 5.11 am there was most deff child abuse towrds my son! The e.r called the dispatch officer to the hospital to take a full report a cps worker came with the officer . I told them the entire thing i saw detail by detail . My son told the officer my ex told him shhh!! Momma is sleepin .. it brought my sons real dad to tears ..  
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Ur his mother it os ur job to protect and take care of him no matter wat n he comes first dnt let him get away wit this at all
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5623087 tn?1377889284
That is just sick I'm sorry you had to deal with that and I truly hope your son is ok poor little guy :( I know how you feel with the brother thing my oldest brother did that to me when I was little and my other brother who is closer to my age tried to help me it was very hard to get through and many times I blamed myself but I know it wasn't my fault but I agree with some other ladies on here take the little guy in and have him checked over he may not have physical pain but emotionally he could be a mess even at that age it is very hard to handle something like that even if some people don't think they will understand what happened kids know more than they let on and I personally think he needs to get some form of help to see if he is alright emotionally and such I would get a restraining order immediately for your son your unborn baby and you own good I would b terrified for their safety if I were you best of luck and keep us posted on what happens to this sick *******
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"Some how" you woke up.....sweetheart that was God. Your own eyes dont lie. Don't let your son go through what you did. You definitely did the right thing. Also, don't allow your new baby around him either.
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5739386 tn?1378836460
I'm praying for you in your son. Keep him out if your life especially for the baby too. don't know how long he have been doing that for it makes me feel sick to my stomach just crazy. and good thing you called right away. And with your mom there's not even a need to talk to him in the morning not never.
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