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stressed and sad (venting)
So, I have been crying for 1 hour straight and can't stop.
Long story short: 16 weeks pregnant, my dad passed away in June, he owned 3 business which had been neglected for a long time cause he was really sick.
My mom managed one of those business, but always following what my dad said. Now that he is gone everything is so messed up. My mom and I argue almost everyday because of this... Since my dad got sick, she has trusted the business she managed to another person, an outside accountant, in who she obviously trusts. To the point my mom wont do anything without asking her.
So, today my mom and I had a really ugly fight because of her. Instead of asking me my opinion, she will talk to this woman first... about things concerning my dad's money, my money! My dad's inheritance is yet to be split between both of us, and she just threw that the business belonged to her in my face! It's so frustrating, and its hurtimg me so bad...
Legally most of the inheritance will be mine, but I wanted to split it equally with her, because she is my mom and I love her. But I don't know what to do anymore, if she remains this selfish.. I don't want my mom to be alone, and with her attitude she is making me draw away. She doesn't seem to realize I'm pregnant. I don't want my baby to get my stress and sadness. But I just can't stop crying over this.
Long story short: 16 weeks pregnant, my dad passed away in June, he owned 3 business which had been neglected for a long time cause he was really sick.
My mom managed one of those business, but always following what my dad said. Now that he is gone everything is so messed up. My mom and I argue almost everyday because of this... Since my dad got sick, she has trusted the business she managed to another person, an outside accountant, in who she obviously trusts. To the point my mom wont do anything without asking her.
So, today my mom and I had a really ugly fight because of her. Instead of asking me my opinion, she will talk to this woman first... about things concerning my dad's money, my money! My dad's inheritance is yet to be split between both of us, and she just threw that the business belonged to her in my face! It's so frustrating, and its hurtimg me so bad...
Legally most of the inheritance will be mine, but I wanted to split it equally with her, because she is my mom and I love her. But I don't know what to do anymore, if she remains this selfish.. I don't want my mom to be alone, and with her attitude she is making me draw away. She doesn't seem to realize I'm pregnant. I don't want my baby to get my stress and sadness. But I just can't stop crying over this.
Ask your mom how she sees this and let her know how you do. She is not wrong for continuing to do what is comfortable in this hard time and you are not wrong for wanting to be consulted. You have to work it out to feel better.
Hang in there. ... You will find a way.
Posting this chunk already helped to calm down a bit
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