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10870053 tn?1416581194

stressed out BAD

Okay so I'm only 18 years old and I'm 35 weeks pregnant with my first child. I am beyond excited and ready for her to be here. Well I am also trying to take care of my sister's 2 year old as well.. I don't think that I can handle taking care of my baby and my sister's child but I just can't leave my niece to care for herself.. I need to get rid of some of this stress before I need up going insane...what can I do
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Good morning my love, look calm down just because your a first time mom don't make you a bad auntie or mom your getting the experiences! you need from your nieces, and right now your all stress out cause your baby can be here at any time that's all, but take in your nieces as your own when your baby come you will know how do handle both. remember baby's sleeps almost all day and your niece takes nap just learn how to managed your Time in between them two. I'm 29 weeks today with my princess I have an 8 year old son, and I baby sit two lil girls there are 2-3 they drive me crazy but I am learning how to deal with more then just one kid cause for 8 years is just been my son, breath you will be fine.
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10870053 tn?1416581194
Good morning my love , thank you very much your comment is very helpful. I am trying my best to be the best aunt I can Be and the best mommie. I don't want her thinking she's being left behind when my daughter comes. I just need a little vacation and clear my head :/
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She's not going to feel that way cause onces you have your lil one you will know the time you need to make for her even if is just 30 mins playing, taking her a bad, or just reading and singing to her she will know your there, for the first week your going to need help with her but then after your going to be so proud of your self, like wow im getting this together, you will see ma.
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10870053 tn?1416581194
Thank you very much. I hope it goes like that :)
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