team pink, i think

[Kezia187]

soooo, i went to the doctor today, and all she said was "it looks like its a girl" lol she couldnt stay still long enough for a really good picture. im happy that ik what the sex is, but im also crushed. her father wanted a girl soooo bad. well, now he has it, but its not MY daughter. he went off and married the girl he was cheating with on me, and she has a daughter. he hasnt forgotten us..... hes trying to take me to court for sole custody. the new guy that im with wants a lil boy as bad as i do, but things arent looking so bright [fpr him lol]. dont get me wrong, i love my lil girl just the same, its just all these emotions at the same time. i only had one name picked out and it was for a boy. i honestly wanted a boy because of the way things ended between me and her father was just terrible and nasty.

[Kezia187]

hes 29 and LIVES WITH HIS MOTHER. his "job"???? his moms "personal assistant" in reality, hes just a maid. he stays at home, and cleans the house. he gets paid $200 a week. his mom is a private nurse, and ik more about her job than her -.-

[LilyRay]

Then as soon as she is born I would file for full custody if he didn't get his son then he won't get his daughter. Wow his mom is a nightmare. She must not want to be in the baby's life? I wouldn't let her after all she has caused. Is she in his sons life?

[Kezia187]

no, its neither. he wants to b in his daughters life [and his sons from the first mother]. but its his MOM. hes a mommas boy, and believes anything she tells him. she filled his head with lies that i was cheating on him, and that hes not the father. he was the one that ultimately cheated on me because. she told him [word for word] "watch out, she gonna leave you for another guy and then make u pay child support" he tried to gain custody of his first child, but that went wrong. now hes looking at my daughter. i want to keep her away from him. hes just an *******, and ive tried everything that i possibly can. i stuck it out even when i shouldnt have. hes showing no signs of change, and i know that his "job" doesnt cant cover both kids and his habits

[LilyRay]

Has he always been a butt or was it when he married the new girl? Maybe she is putting stuff in his head. Idk either way that was a jerk move to start denying the baby.  Child support might be the only way to get his help with the baby so I would push that cause it don't look like he's going to help willingly.

[Kezia187]

it just bothers me that he cut off ALL contact with me, just to contact me once to say that he'll see me in court.[but he found out i left the state] he wants a paternity test done to prove that he's the father [which is sad because he knows that i never cheated on him]. i dont want this done not because its humiliating on both our accounts, but he sets himself up for child support. its really the last thing that i want happening. he just got hit with child support from his first childs mother, and in his background, he's not reliable

[LilyRay]

In the end its his loss. He will be the one missing out and he couldn't take her from u unless u were proved to be an unfit mother. Most courts are all for the baby staying with birth mom.