super pissed

[alexisandbentley]

So I watch my aunts kids all day everyday, because shes lazy and her husband works all day. She gets up and goes straight to the neighbors. So im stuck with her 2,8,&11 year old. And they dont like to listen. So she waits till my moms about to be here and she comes home and blames the house being dirty, and everything on everyone else. She expects her 11 year old and 8 year old to keep the house clean?  And the dishes done? She makes them eat bulony every day so she can stay at the neighbors and not have to do anything. Then she has the nerve to tell me her kids dont need to see my belly.. because it hangs out less than an inch! But yet she can walk around with her boobs and butt hanging out, and thats just okay.?! What even.

[specialmom]

What sounds super sad is that her kids only have you to be normal in their life.  It may not be worth the aggravation to watch them but it sure is nice that they at least have you.  

They probably don't listen because she never mother them with firm but loving boundaries.  That's sad.  Not really an excuse for disrespect but dang, kids with a mom like that don't have much of a shot.

Again, hopefully you will rub off on them.  

I'm not sure if it is a great situation for you to watch them ---  only you can decide that.  

Anyway, I know I wasn't much help here.  LOL  But just wanted to acknowledge that it sounds frustrating for sure!  best of luck to you

[britt2241]

I would honestly tell her to watch her own kids and not come back. At least not until she admits shes in the wrongand starts treating you with respect, if your the forgiving kind.