im so confused ;(

[soWhatImFlawed]

Im 15weeks pregnant with a boy and  my boyfriend walked out on me yesterday and told me he can't do this he doesn't want to be a father and i need to get rid of the baby .. He says there is to many things going worng in my life right now and( example : my breaks went out on my car and i crashed ,im behind in my bills, my mom is get evicted and etc ...) he says i should take it as a sign and not havr the baby.. Also i got rushed to the er from work today and he wouldn't even answer my calls .. This hurts so damn much

[foevaloyal]

I'm 16weeks and my babyfater told me the same thing even try to make a have miscarriage by putting his hands on me u dnt need him GOD gave u ur gift if he dnt want to be there so what women been single mothers fo along time u will ne jus fine

[Guccidoll]

Stay strong for your baby they can sence when you dont want them a baby is a gift from God a man can be replaced but a son is there forever God bless you hope you make it through the storm.

[expectingbabygirl]

Same.:/ how are things? have yall talked?

[jamarismomi]

at the end of the day dont let him get to you it is hard but god usually sends down the storm before the calm just have faith that god will be there for you your fam and baby ever since i been prego i read two scriptures a day one when i wake up the other when i laydown and it helps me through my daily struggles im twenty one with one daughter who is two anda baby boy on the way you live for your children not from the men who make them with you cause nine times out of ten they will leave when the going gets tough but believe your children and fam(sometimes) remain on your side so just push through your storm and believe and have faith that something better is on the other end

[soWhatImFlawed]

Thank you all i don't want to get rid on my baby believe. I just couldn't believe he would treat me like this it hurts like hell and its just really hard like everything that can go wrong is going worng and idk why its happening ..i haven't been able to have one happy moment this whole pregnancy

[Tiff_Tons]

Im 32 weeks pregnant.  Im going through alot of the same.  Im 30 with 2 other children.  My youngest is 9 so having our newest arrival is exciting.  However with the father not around can 've very hard.  Just know tho will pass and will get smoother :)

[HadleyRose]

God created women to be strong in a way we never thought we could be. Don't let this issue get in your way.

[Nontsa]

Your baby is a blessing,  rather get rid of ur boyfriend,  u will be fine. ..

[yami93]

Believe me I have a lot of probles I am prego 19 weeks and my boyfriend say he need time to think stuff and not because of the I am going to lose my baby be strong if he decided not to be in my life and my baby life well its his lost not my

[HadleyRose]

In my opinion, that would be to keep the baby.

[Carola91]

You'll be fine,  I don't think God would send you a sign to get rid of the baby he has given you, who you should get rid of is your boyfriend is what it sounds like. Stick it out be tough and have your baby,  it will be so worth it in the end. There's a lot of help out there you can get to help you get back on your feet. =)

[HadleyRose]

I'm sorry to hear this. It doesn't Matter what's going on in your life right now. There will always be financial issues, you can always get your car fixed or get a new car... those are things you can fix  as time goes by. But you can only have this specific child once. Every child is a gift / blessing from God. Sounds to me that your bf is making "excuses" for you because he doesnt want to take responsibility. Even if he wants out on you, he will have to pay child support on his part, and seems like he doesn't want that. I dont know your life or situation, but I wouldn't want you to give up on your baby just got a guy who told u to do so, but will also be out of your life. Of It's not easy, but I hope you do what's right and best for you and your baby.

[nikiic]

I'm 15 weeks and my aunt and my bestfriend have both past away a week from each other Blythe only that the father of my baby also walked out I was in the hospital just the other day cause I was hurting in my stomach region but I promise you it will get better and you are not alone. Once that baby is here everything is going to change and for the better cause he us going to bring you nothing but joy and love
And right you need to focus on your health and the babies.

[dorothy701]

Wtf sweetie I am so sorry he is just weak unfortunately all men are in some way that's why we Carrie the baby's not them. And life is a bioch and whatever can go wring will. No this is not a sign and no you should not get rid of your baby! You don't need him!! Life is weird and hard and well that covers it but as long as your healthy and the baby is skrew him. The hurt will keep hurting I'm sorry for that but when you see your sons face nothing else but making sure he is safe and loved will matter!

[soWhatImFlawed]

I was ccramping having sharp pains and my back and terrible breathing

[Babygirl271983]

Why did you go to the er