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Not a question :) just emotional♡
I've been through so much heart break with the one I thought was my true love my soul mate..He gave me this precious gift and I wouldn't trade my baby for anything. I love her to death. I remember when I first found out I was pregnant in August 28, 2014. I couldn't stop crying with happiness. I was scared too but excited about my little peanut. I did my best in the first couple months to get money to save it was hard but worth it. From the first time I felt my baby move I fell more in love every single day. When I found out it was a girl I was just so happy because she's my little princess. My heart grows stronger for her every day. All the morning sickness, headaches, dizziness, couldn't eat, always tired, nose bleeds, trouble sleeping, back pain, cramps, and all the more that's still to come. It's all worth it because I love my little princess. I can't wait to meet her in a few months and see how she looks and just be the best mom I could for her and watch her grow up and become a beautiful lady. Even though her dumb dad doesn't love us and I was dumb to think he was my true love but I didn't know what true love is till I was pregnant with my princess. I just need my baby to be happy I wouldn't trade it for the world I love her, even though she's not born yet I'm in love with my baby more and more everyday♡ I can't wait till she's out♡ :')
I'm so sorry. It's hard but there's so many single mom's everywhere Nd they do a really good job
I found out my fiance and father of my son was cheating on me 2 days ago and he wants nothing to do with "That ******* Child" as he said so I'm now a single mother
Thank you ladies. Your story was inspiring to me. I will take care of my daughter and I hope one day in the future someone new walks in that will turn my way so I won't be afraid to love a guy anymore. And yes he is 19 years old and I'm 18, we dated for almost 3 years and our relationship was really fine until I got pregnant, he would always argue with me call me bad names and tell me that the baby isn't his when he knows it's his because he was my first for everything and I was never that type of person..I gave him a chance again in December and it seemed ok but we're not together anymore he told me I was a waste of time and it broke my heart into pieces. So I decided I have to be strong for my daughter she's all i care and love with Al my heart now and I realized I don't need a guy like him and that I was even stupid enough to try to have him in my life still..she's going to have my last name and I'm going to be the best mom I can be
I understand the dilemma and my story definitely parallels. My husband and I are seperated and I it got pregnant when we tried to reconcile out marriage. We went to counselling and officially tried to get back together after I got pregnant as well. It didn't work because he refuses to break up with his girlfriend that he is living with. Even though I'm having his baby. Really feels terrible. I'm afraid to tell people I'm pregnant because I'm single and im afraid I'm m will be judged. Half of my friends and family don't even talk to me anymore. It *****. I understand what ur going thru. Message me anytime if u want to talk.
I'm really sorry to hear that I'm in kinda same situation but idk where he stands in the moment. I'm having a little girl too and I hope that whatever our future brings us with or without him I pray I am strong enough for her. I hope you the best and I know you will have happy days to come:).
I'm really sorry to hear that I'm in kinda same situation but idk where he stands in the moment. I'm having a little girl too and I hope that whatever our future brings us with or without him I pray I am strong enough for her. I hope you the best and I know you will have happy days to come:).
Sorry for the spellings but my phone is a stubborn one ;)
Hey mamavive951
I reconize your story.
First of all I feel soooo sorry for you finding out he doesn't care after yu got pregnant.Is he young 2? I know you are still young but age doesn't always say all. You love your baby already even she isn't born yet. That's a big proof that you will find the strenght to fight for both your rights. I can tell you, the hardest thing someone can do to a woman is:1 break her heart into peaces, 2 take her child(ren). If u do that she will be a lion!
This guy I believe is way to young and afraid now. Maybe he will understand and turn up in a feW years, maybe he never will.You only know for sure that U are there for her. Who else is more Worth fighting for than someone who knows how your heart sounds like from the inside!!!!
I was in your shoes 2. I was 18 when I had my daughter. The father was a peace of ****. He still is today. When she was born I did all by myself. Feeding her at night, waking up 7 times at night,dressing and feeding her, bringing her to daycare, going to school, work and doing the same thing over again, studying at night and that day after day. I was soooooo tired cause of leck of sleep. He did nothing. But when I looked into her eyes I found the strenght! I askef God why I haf to go throigh this. What did I do wrong? I prayed day in and out. I had to trust the proces.
I graduated and did even finished university.
Later he was Walking in and out her life when he wanted to. In 1 year she might see him 4 times ( I don't talk about the times he didn't showed up). In the beginning I was sooooo angry at him. I had so much hate( (love and hate lay close to each other). He broke my heart as my first love. But I didn't took revenge on him not showing her. I wasn't raised that way.
After 5 years I met my hubby. We are 15 weeks pregnant from a 2nd child and live togheter. He took my first as his own on the law. He feeds her, protects her, helps with homework and teaches her new things. Now all my pain and suffer has paid of. God couldn't bring me a better man. He is more than I ever dreamed of.
She knows who her biologi al father is but now she doesn't ask about him anymore. She has a "help"daddy now (how we call him cause he helps her all the time. She starts even to call him daddy most of the time, cause he is more daddy than her own. It was so beautifull first time calling him like this!)
Anyway what I want to tell you is: trust the proces. Life has a plan for you. It might be hard now and you can't seem the end, but there is something better for you. See it like a horizon: you don't see the other side but u know there is!
I hope u will fight your life and hers and go trough the rugh proces to get solething beautiful!
I reconize your story.
First of all I feel soooo sorry for you finding out he doesn't care after yu got pregnant.Is he young 2? I know you are still young but age doesn't always say all. You love your baby already even she isn't born yet. That's a big proof that you will find the strenght to fight for both your rights. I can tell you, the hardest thing someone can do to a woman is:1 break her heart into peaces, 2 take her child(ren). If u do that she will be a lion!
This guy I believe is way to young and afraid now. Maybe he will understand and turn up in a feW years, maybe he never will.You only know for sure that U are there for her. Who else is more Worth fighting for than someone who knows how your heart sounds like from the inside!!!!
I was in your shoes 2. I was 18 when I had my daughter. The father was a peace of ****. He still is today. When she was born I did all by myself. Feeding her at night, waking up 7 times at night,dressing and feeding her, bringing her to daycare, going to school, work and doing the same thing over again, studying at night and that day after day. I was soooooo tired cause of leck of sleep. He did nothing. But when I looked into her eyes I found the strenght! I askef God why I haf to go throigh this. What did I do wrong? I prayed day in and out. I had to trust the proces.
I graduated and did even finished university.
Later he was Walking in and out her life when he wanted to. In 1 year she might see him 4 times ( I don't talk about the times he didn't showed up). In the beginning I was sooooo angry at him. I had so much hate( (love and hate lay close to each other). He broke my heart as my first love. But I didn't took revenge on him not showing her. I wasn't raised that way.
After 5 years I met my hubby. We are 15 weeks pregnant from a 2nd child and live togheter. He took my first as his own on the law. He feeds her, protects her, helps with homework and teaches her new things. Now all my pain and suffer has paid of. God couldn't bring me a better man. He is more than I ever dreamed of.
She knows who her biologi al father is but now she doesn't ask about him anymore. She has a "help"daddy now (how we call him cause he helps her all the time. She starts even to call him daddy most of the time, cause he is more daddy than her own. It was so beautifull first time calling him like this!)
Anyway what I want to tell you is: trust the proces. Life has a plan for you. It might be hard now and you can't seem the end, but there is something better for you. See it like a horizon: you don't see the other side but u know there is!
I hope u will fight your life and hers and go trough the rugh proces to get solething beautiful!
Aw that is a very brave of you & inspiring @soccermom am glad there is people on here that have walked that road and can help people like yourself on here and u being 18 and feeling the way u do is very grown up and i believe u can do this good luck girl x
Thank you. I hope I do good. It's my first baby and I'm only 18 but I'm mature and I'm doing my best for her till she's born. I just want her in my arms already and my new life will begin:)
Your story is a lot like mine. I went thru the same exact thing. My babygirl is now 16! And I kept my promise to raise her. She's smart and beautiful. I can tell you things will be just fine for you and your precious princess! Be strong for her and she's all you really need♡
Yeah its really hard especially when you loved the guy so much..but I'm just so emotional today and I was talking to my belly rubbing it saying I don't need your dad I will be the best mom for you to make you happy and stuff and I started crying because I love her and I have to be strong for her. I just can't wait till she's out
Aw i am so sorry to hear that im a ftm too but i know about that special connection with your baby girl inside u cuz i have those feelings to i just can't wait to be the best mum i can be :) please try keep your head up even though it must be hard but in time it will get easier for u & good luck for when your princess arrives x
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