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So I got the letter in the mail today and I was denied assistance because I didn't give them a good reason to why I quit my job other than to get assistance when I quit my job because of these people I was working with were rude and I couldn't take the comments anymore
I got food stamps and I'm job hunting now but I am not in a good living sisuation my mother has told me she will not have a relationship with me unless I have one with her boyfriend, who is a ex crack head and is totally weird and creepy not gonna even go on about that part it's tuff now I want to move back with my boyfriend who is also the father of my baby coming in October but he's in collage and busy and is unreliable I'm stuck idk what to do because I do not in any means want my mom's bf around me or my baby I need to get out... Hopefully when I move out of state I can apply for assistance but now I don't think I can because I already did in the state I'm in now I don't want to stress out so that's why I'm writing this on here I'm crying right now it *****
I have a few other things I'm dealing with but I'd rather not go on about my patheticness
I'm so worried and I have health insurance and a place right now to live but idk how long I will have and once I move out of state I won't have insurance so I got to go through it all over again
Even with my loving boyfriend I feel alone he's in a different state I hate this feeling of being alone it ***** damnit
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Destynee2015 Yeah I heard debate over obamacare I honestly don't know a lot about it...
I will definitely get the ball rolling as soon as I move in Thank you it means a lot to me :)
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In my opinion, obamacare isnt the cheapest for someone without an income but totally ur choice. Also, when u move u will need to reapply and they will ask u if u got assistance in other states. Ur answer will be yes but that wont affect their decision. You should still qualify for food stamps and medicaid as long as ur pregnant. Im not sure about cash aid though. Just ask the worker about cash assistance. Once u move just get things rolling quickly so u wont go too long without insurance. Good luck youll do fine once u get things going. :)
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Its been a thought yes, thank you :)
I want to see my other options before that though xo
Best of luck to you too !
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Hey, I understand your situation, I'm in a tight spot myself, I am 11 weeks now and have made the decision to go to a temporary shelter, it's not ideal but I know that I will have a home if my own by the time I have this baby, I also have another child that is school age. It's really not what I want to do but I will get an affordable place to live that I can call my own, and it will give me the chance to get other things in my life in order, not having to pay 1,000$ a month for rent will allow me to go back to school. I'm not saying that you should go into a shelter, but it is an option. Good luck to you and your baby, whatever you decide.
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OHHHH okay I will check that out as well thank you so much!!!!!!!
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Bc you are pregnant you can apply for obamacare outside of open enrollment.
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Thank you:) ugh its so stressful I was living with my bf for 9 months moved back to be with my family during a difficult time and found out I was pregnant like 2 weeks after moving back I have been back for a month and I want to move back to the state where my bf is maybe he can help out by saying I've been there but I just got excepted for food stamps in this state I'm afraid it will interfere with trying to get it in the other state ugh thank you anyways dear xo
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You can apply for assistance in another state and get it you are pregnant and that will get you insurance.  As far as a place you can apply for help but would have to stay in the state for 30 days for the most part.  Unless you have someone who willing to say you lived with them for 30 days.  I wish you luck. Oh yes you can appeal their decision also.
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