Hello, My fiance and I have been trying to have a baby for the past five months and nothing seems to be happening.I feel like giving up trying because i feel like i cant have children tell me what should i do.I asked him should we adopt but he wants his own children he says he doenst want to raise anyone elses children and he doesnt have his own. This is hard and its stressing me out. I dont no what too do anymore
Its not impossible!!!! my last shot was due on Feb. 3rd and I didn't get it cause we wanted another one and just 6 weeks later without a period I was preggo. I'm now almost 12 weeks prego. GOOD LUCK
First, I would like to thank everyone for their advice. I made an appointment with my OB/GYN for Thursday, so I hope that I can get some good news. I am praying that I have the same luck and get pregnant with no period, that would be the miracle that we need right now. Thank you all. If anyone finds out anything else, please let me know.
Depo usually stays in your system 12-18 months. Some people immediately get pregnant after depo. Have your Dr check your hormone levels and see if they are high. I had to take Provera to jumpstart my periods in Dec05 and Jan06. And I now am 18 weeks pregnant. I was on 2 shots of Depo in 04 and then went straight to BCP until Aug 05, in order to regulate my periods from being on Depo. A healthy couple takes about a year to conceive, the chances each month are around 25%. The only thing I can think that you could take to get pregnant is provera to induce a period and then a round of clomid. But that dont promise you will be pregnant that cycle. Best of Luck!
Jen
I don't know if I can answer your question or not. I'm a NNP (neonatal nurse practitioner).
I can tell you that there is nothing you can do to hurry the depo out of your system, though. If it is imperative that you get pregnant right away, make an appt to talk with your OB/GYN and see he might give you Clomid. I doubt it, but due to the circumstance it's worth asking at the least. You should also see your doctor before you try to conceive anyway so this would be a good thing to do.
I'm trying to conceive my second child. My first has Aspergers and is fairly disabled. GL to all of us! This is an amazing website. If anyone has questions about neonatal issues i'll be glad to help answer.
I have a question, what's the difference between the women forum and the maternity one? Is this for more general stuff?