the great debate....

[rmfogel]

The only reason im even debating  is because im almoat 33. We have been ttc for a year now. My dr isn't worried, hormones tested in sept. All was normal. Transvaganal ultrasound done in Feb or March again all normal. Do I go to a fertility  dr or keep trying???

[cadigurl1688]

I would keep trying and visualize that you are already pregnant and feel that excitement. It was really hard for me to get pregnant and I was very sad and depressed about it but then I saw that wasnt changing my result so I started taking prenatal supplements to get my body healthy and started dreaming happy thoughts about my future child instead of feeling it will never happen and filling my mind with doubt. It took 3 months after I started this process to finally get pregnant after 2 1\2 years of doubting. I am about 15weeks along and it still feels so unreal. Best of luck to you.

[AJsbaby]

I gotta say that due to an indepth and tilted cervix and having a leep procedure and 2 biopsies several years ago that caused scar tissue I was told by my drs I may never become pregnant. I had lived with this thought for several years and had done lots of research on having a tilted cervix and what were the best ways to become pregnant. After planning sex every other night the week of my ovulation for 3 months straight and cutting specific things out of our diets I finally became pregnant and that one January night I did something different and I swear to this day thats how I conceived. After having awesome sex with my husband I actually forced myself to masturbate and really get the "fluids" flowing freely without having his man stuff protruding and blocking and shoving stuff around down there giving the sperm plenty of slippery slope LOL! It was hard to do but I eventually hit the orgasm and like I said I swear to this day thats what helped me conceive! It might be worth a shot. I wish you luck!