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21 still in college parents are furious, afraid to keep the baby I'm assuming I'm a month due to the fact that my period came and stopped only 2-4 days ago.
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3185867 tn?1348434443
Ong i meant to finish typing HOPEFuLLy shell come around! I didnt call u a ho i promise lol
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3185867 tn?1348434443
N u shuldnt have to get rid of this baby too, just cuz ur momm needs a baby sitter. Ur lucky ur pregnant again after the first abortion. God must really want u to have a baby in ur life or he wuldnt of blessed u again with this one after aboorting the first. Although i understand the circumstances.  This is ur choice. Its her grabdbaby ho
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I had my first daughter at 17, im 23 now and just had my third daughter 3 weeks ago! I havnt spoke to my mam in over 3yrs now, she used me and my daughter to get a council house then didn't wanna know n we got chucked out when my lg was 2 and 36 weeks pregnant! Atleast I've learned from her how NOT to treat my kids...
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3185867 tn?1348434443
Ur 21? Thats like the normal age people started having babies these days. Im only 18 and im being induced n a week n a half.
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Im 20, and in college but now I have a motivation to keep going and graduate so that I can provide a stable enviorment. :))
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I got pregnant soon as I turned 18 and I wouldn't have had a place to stay cause they were kicking me out for bring pregnant so I aborted it. My moms a popper too , consistently for 18 of my 21 years but I have to constantly watch her so she would be on her own cause I'm not raising a child around that. I do want the baby though, I think they are acting this way because they don't like the father and I'm like, at least I know who the father is, I've never been sleezy , been with this guy two whole years I don't see the problem
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4385387 tn?1358633945
I had my first at 21. My parents were furious as well. A month into it, they were different. Started asking questions, getting more involved. Both of them were in the delivery room. :) Also, having a baby while trying to complete some form of education does not mean you'll fail. Things will just be more difficult. Please dont let anyone talk to into abortion or adoption unless its what YOU want.
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Going through the same thing. My mom has pill popping issues and she threatened to kill my baby and told me to drop out of college. Because I'm just a failure.
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Had my first at 22. I'm currently in college pregnant with number two. People are going to judge you your whole life, its up to you to decide what you can and can't do. And you CAN be a mom and finish school. <3 you got this.
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3242317 tn?1346785004
Wow. You sound like me. My mom was mad I assume I am about a month as well. Im 20 and in college. But I dont think a baby will stop you from completing your education. It will make it harder though. The question is...what do you want to do?
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