Have you tried to talk to your husband about this?
Try talking to him.
My bf wasn't as attentive as the movies.
Aka feet rubbing. Back rubbing, running to store for sweets etc etc
But this pregnancy he's done a 180. He'll rub my back (tho he's not the greatest I'll admit) and is constantly satisfying my cravings (which isn't always good lmao)
While my husband has always went above and beyond, pregnancy or not, there is still some areas I find... idk may need a closer look
We have been together for 8 years & married for 6. So he pretty much just knows me.
Our issues are more along the lines of... him leaving his dirty cloths on the floor, or not clearing up his dinner plate, I asked him about the issues and he trys he really does. But idk men are so one tract minded I should say? Lol
But he's your mate. You both must find away to meet half way. Perhaps doing something special for him as well? They need just like we do, they are just to "manly " to bring up their needs and wants
I never got anything like this off my partner during my first pregnancy or this one. I've always believed the perfect man who runs to get your food your craving or who sits and rubs your feet is just made up and appears in movies. Yes I am carrying his child and yes it is hard work but he still goes to work everyday to provide for me and my family and that's enough for me. Just because he doesn't go out of his way to do all them things doesn't mean he don't love or care about you
Some guys aren't just the type to go above and beyond. I'm 19 too, my bf is 21. it's my 2nd pregnancy and this time around I noticed he's less attentive too...it's kinda like he's used to me being pregnant so he kinda knows what goes on. But I understand your point because even tho my bf would go and get my cravings he wouldn't go near my feet, rub my back nor would he buy me cute things unless I "mentioned" something..but after 3yrs I got used to the way he is.
Like everyone else said sit down and have a heart to heart talk let him know how your feeling. Im 17 just had baby #2 on the 17th. With my first my boyfriend would spoil me get me everything i craved rubbed my feet, anything i asked for he got me. Now with my second it was way different its kinda hard doing alot with a two year old running around. He still got me what i wanted but wasnt really with me all the time. He work really hard just comes home eats and sleeps. I finally told me how i was feeling and talked to him. Just do the same girl hopefully things will work out good luck and congrats