I sweetie. if you haven't already tried it, maybe you can try general and ginger snap cookies, these have helped me in the past with my nausea and vomiting. I too have 4 kids and I'm also pregnant with my 5th baby. my first , my son I didn't have any problems with him. My second, my daughter I lost weight but I did gain alot but at around 28-29 weeks I started to lose weight . my doctor was getting concerned about my daughter because he said that my stomach was 1 week behind of measurement of what it should have been. But he summed it up to be that my baby girl was going to be small and petite. This was at my 37 week appointment tho. I have been and still am anemic through out all of my pregnancies. she was born 2 days later, healthy 7lb 11oz 20.5in there was no health problems with her.
I'm 18w5d today and I'm still losing weight but baby is healthy as far as I know. I have my 20 week ultrasound on the 4th of April, I should know more by then. My sister had trouble gaining weight with her pregnancy and she had a 7lb 8oz baby girl, she's turning 3 weeks next Wednesday.
sorry I'm not much help sweetie.