You cant worry about whats happened in yours partners past… as for his mother i think its more wanting a realtionship with their grandchild but that doesnt mean they want you not to be involved with her son! Your just emotional at the moment but if you want to set your mind at ease, have a talk with his mother
It's understandable to be emotional about it. Your boyfriend had a life before he met you. Can't change the past. Try to make peace with the fact that he has a child with another woman. He's with you. Like the previous posts say, his mom probably just wants a relationship with her grandchildren and as a grandma she probably loves to show off her grandkids. My mom does.
I agree. And i wouldnt worry too much about it anyways. You have your own blessing coming into the world but i would definitely talk to him and his mother