Am I pregnant.

[Pinkgirl4235]

Hello, I need advice and help. My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years. Well, Im 14 and im sexually active without my parents knowing. I dont have birth control or anything. Well, me and my boyfriend had sex a lot, like 3 times every other day. And he came inside of me all those times. What is the percentage of me being pregnant? I dont know what to do, or tell my mom because she is very judgemental and what she says about other sexually active teenagers, it just hurts when she says stuff about them not knowing her own daughter may be pregnant. And its very hard for me to get a pregnancy test, but I was just waiting until after my missed period and when my kidney infection (from sex) goes away..but please help me.

[Elaine Brown, MD]

Hi!
I hope that you are happy about your relationship--you don't sound completely convincing.

If you continue to have regular sex, you almost certainly will be pregnant soon, if not already.  Once you are pregnant, you are considered to be an emancipated minor, and can get health care without your parent's consent.  This is not something I would recommend doing except as a last resort.

If you want birth control ( yes you do!!! ) I would suggest getting a friend to go with you to Planned Parenthood.  They are very excellent at talking with teens and moms of teens and might be a great resource to get both of you onto the same page.

I can tell you this:  Most moms would rather find out that their daughters are sexually active at an appointment for birth control, than at a prenatal appointment.


Good luck!
Dr B

[Leiqhlay]

Well im 15 years old , sexually active and my mom doesn't know , baby girl don't let him *** inside you , thats not cute or safe ! If you cant get a pregnancy test, birth control, or condom then don't have sex ! You need to tell your mom eventually that you have been. You don't have to tell her you still are but eventually it will have to come to that. Be smart & have safe sex. If you got an infection from sex you really might want to use condoms ! And your chances of being pregnant are very high !  Your relationship at 14 is not serious enough to be having raw sex 3times a day and letting him *** inside you ! Did you wake up dumb that day ? You need to get condoms ! Ask a doctor or find a planned parenthood for yourself !

[nieko123]

well first 14 is way to young to be experensing intercourse,BUT  since you already are ,im sure your parents or your friends along with your school sex eduacation has told you about birth control methods such as diaframs ,comdons and birth control pills,you sounded like you have no clue if you can get pregnant during unprotected sex,there for this is why you should not be having sex cause you are to young and un responsible of what comes along with sex,,yes its 100% that you could be pregnant since no procautions were taking to avoid it, now if you are not pregnant and continue to have sex ,you can go to your dr.without your parents and ask them about birth control without your parents permition all is confadental if you ask them to not say anything and keep it confidental...
also if you are pregnant you need to tell your parents right away!! so your baby and you stay healthy with prenatal apointments,,if you do not get your parents help soon tests that are very important in your first couple of weeks will not be able to be done and could be harmfull to you and yopur baby,now remember hun you have options i myself will always keep my children as for the baby did not ask for you to have sex with its daddy,,,but you being 14 have your wholoe life ahead of you still so adoption plans can be consitterd theres such thing as open adoption were you go through profiles with the companie and you choose the family for your baby and get to know them some before the baby is born,then after the baby is born you are included in the babys life but not as its mommy but as its birth mother,,,you will be asked to sign over all rights to the baby and give custody to the adopted parents by the time you leave the hospital,there is abortion to but i do not recomend that ,your baby is innocent and desearves to live life remember he or she did not ask to be born so dont take it out on the baby,and one more thing i know alot of teens go off by them selfs and deliver on there own and discard the baby PLEASE DONT BE ONE OF THOSE KIDS,it is unsafe and bleeding may happen to you after delivery and can kill you..please find a way to take a test and tell your mom its not the worst thing in the world and youll get through it,your young and strong,but not strong enough to take on having a baby alone by yourself ,,i have 4 girls and one due in january ,the pain of labor is not an easy task believe me but ask for staydull during delivery,it does not numb you from the chest down like an epidural does..its a pain releaver and works beautifully .its all i ever use ...good luck i know this may have sounded harsh but im not here to suger coat it for you..im here to give you advise i think some people havnt given you...also you can get free condoms by your dr and family planning or parent hood,,your boyfriend or you can walk into any store and by them right over the copunter too its not eligal and also people dont look at you funny they are thinking wow this girl is SMART ! OK WELL I HOPE I HAVE GIVING YOU SOME GOOD INSIGHT,NIGHT........

[alessia27]

did you end up pregnant?