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Am I the only one??

I'm on my second baby and i feel like I don't want my baby (in my tummy) at times and it makes me very sad cause I don't like feeling this way, my bf saids don't feel that way it's not good, it's a blessing we were given... which is true but idk if I feel this way cause it was a kind of unplanned pregnancy and I my son is only 15 months or why I feel like this....
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I'm in the same boat. But my son is 2&1/2. I know I will love this baby but wish I could go back and stop it from happening. It makes me feel so awful to think that way. But it was an unplanned pregnancy. I just don't feel like I'm ready.
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13782075 tn?1437961772
I totally feel you my daughter is 7 in a half months and im six months pregnant when i first found out i was pregnant i felt so guilty and so scared and nervous i couldnt even try to be happy about it...now i have 100 days left until my son is here and im stoked...the bad feelings will go away and you will start to be happy and excited it may take a little time but i think your feelings will change for the better. Wish you the best of luck
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^^^ Yeah same here I feel like I'm not ready also, me and my bf were barley talking about another baby than I found out I was pregnant.... and i feel like i took my sons time away from him i should have waited til he was 3 atleast
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Thank you I hope so too :)
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13782075 tn?1437961772
No i like cryed because i felt so guilty to my daughter i felt that it wasnt fair to her because i wouldn't be able to give her the love and attention she deserved... Now at 26 weeks im so excited to meet my son and show her her little brother lol i know shes going to love him as much as me and i know i will give her and him all the love and affection they need....and the coolest thing is im sure they will be very close as siblings so i knpw things will work out perfectly because they already are lol they will be 11 months apart but im sure best friends lol
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14089185 tn?1439417585
Oh man so glad to know im not the only one feeling this way . I have a 9 month old girl and 31weeks prego with another girl . I alwaysss think about it :( but hey atleast our kids wont be lonely lol .
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Ikinda feel the same way. Im 27wks w.baby #3 (unplannned pregnancy) & a have a 14month old boy. My poor lil man.... But sometimes idnt think about it more of my son its about me ima go insane w.3 & my husband its gonnnna b vry extremely hard!!!!
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I felt the same way throughout my first trimester  with this baby. I found out in January  and my daughter wasn't even 1 yet. It took some time but I'm very happy  now, it's not the same mind blowing excitement it was with my daughter just because it was so unplanned but you will come around and except  it and start to love the little baby in your belly. Just know that in no way  shape or form do these feelings  make you a terrible mother, they are completely  natural
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