Congrats but depending on your doctor they may not want you to go until 20 weeks when you can almost always tell the gender and everything. With my fist I was 19 weeks found out he was a boy this time around the new guidelines are waiting until 20 weeks just to make sure it's not to early. Good luck. As far as kicks go I felt the first kicks with my son at 19 weeks the day I found out his gender this time around I am 13 weeks and still haven't felt anything yet. Hoping for some flutters in the next couple weeks
Hey and congrats. You are able to find out the babies gender at 16 weeks fingers crossed baby opens those legs. As for movement everyone is different I felt my first flutter at 10 weeks and I'm pregnant with baby #1. They say you don't feel kicks until another 16-18 weeks. Best of luck