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Bleeding

ok..I really need your guys help...Im totally freaking out..I feel like i made a horrible mistake in my life. OK..I had sex with my b/f on feb. 7th.. well not really sex....sex..caz before his pennis were gonna enter my vigina i told him to stop caz it hurted so bad and he also didnt ejaculates. I also washed myself rigth after and jus a tiny lil boold i noticed while washing myself but nthin to big. The same day i also saw brownish spots of tiny bit boold on my underwear but on the 9th feb i started to bleed a lil bit and im cnfused beacsue i dont kno if im on my periods 3 days early or what? My periods suppose to start on the 12th but im already bleeding. Im scared beacsue i hope it's not the sign of pregnancy?? can you guys please help me out here???    
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I am somewhat curious about something along these lines too. I had sex about a week to two weeks ago and a few times since then. My back aches, I have been getting cramps, and I don't know if my breasts are tender, or if I'm just imagining it because I'm paranoid. Anyway, I have had this cramping feeling in my lower stomach and I never get cramps when I have my period, well not since my very first period. I read about pregnancy symptoms and learned about implantation bleeding. I went to the bathroom yesterday morning and had a brownish clot come out and it was followed by blood. I have been bleeding since, not as much as a period, but definitely more than just spotting.
I don't have a regular period, so its kind of hard to measure it by when I should have gotten my period because sometimes it won't come for 12 weeks or so, but its been about 28 days since my last one. Usually there is more time between periods, but maybe this one just came early? I'm not even sure if I would have been ovulating around the time I had sex, which should have been the only time I could have gotten pregnant. I have a pregnancy test and plan on testing in a couple weeks. But until then, does anyone have any answers or ideas about what could be going on?
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394249 tn?1232277839
Hey there,
It sounds like you might have had an implantation bleed so i would say yes you still could be for sure i would try another hpt in a few days let me know how you go!!!
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According to my ovulation chart I has sex on all the right days to become pregnant.  My period was due today (2/19).  I felt for sure I was pregnant...all the symptoms.  I have been taking hpt's since last friday.  Well, this morning I started what I thought was my period.  I had the full cramping, etc. that goes along with it.  However, it has turned out to be very light.  I first put a tampon in because I figured it was my period and we'd try again next month.  Usually on the first day of my cycle I have to change these very often or I will have bleed throughs.  Well, when I went to change it at lunch there was barely any blood on it and when I inserted another the tube came out with no blood on it.  Since lunch I have wore a panty liner...nothing like what my normal first day heavy period is..This is very odd and not like my normal cycle at all.  (I am 27 days like clockwork)  Could I still possibly be pregnant or is my mind playing tricks on me AND my body?
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I am new to the site, hopefully someone can help. I am 36 and on my first pregnancy. I am on my second IVF cycle, I had my transfer on Feb.1, I took a blood test on 2-15, they say I am pregnant, I am still on progesterone shots, I have been having some light spotting since the transfer, yesterday I had a slightly larger dark brown spot, today, I had another dark brown spot followed by bright red when I wiped, every time I go to the bathroom I get the bright red or pink spotting everytime I wipe. Could this be implantation bleeding? or could I be misscarrying? I still feel tenderness in my breasts and I have had a bad headache all day, does anyone know of any success stories after experiencing these symptoms. Please help, thank you.
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415665 tn?1202673612
hey love, You could’ve thrown off your ovulation last month by stress or even being sick. This can make you period early or even late. If you had a somewhat intercourse on the 7th and you are pregnant it’s not from having sex on the 7th but during you last months ovulation. That is the only time you can get pregnant.
Having sex sometimes when it hurts you may have ripped your lips, walls, or even hit something, but if this is the case I wouldn’t worry. The brown bleeding is just dry blood from bleeding from sex. But if you are in fact bleeding still you need to call a doctor. Sometimes when a woman bleeds after sex and it doesn’t go away could be a disease, but I wouldn’t bank on that. I hope this helps you
                                                            tori,
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Hey...first of all thanx to all of you who replied bak thanx alot..Im feeling much better after reading a the comments...Well im 19 never had sex before because never felt like i was ready for it. Im still bleeding and today is the forth day ..i usually get my periods for three days and sometimes 4 so im little worried about that...and as far as having other Symptoms Of Being Pregnant....not really..but bleeding was the first thing i was worried about caz usually when i get my periods i get really bad crapms on the first day but nthin like that happened this time and that's wut's worrying me...Am i really on my periods or is it smthin else like implantation bleeding?? I also took a home pregnancy test but it came negtive and that might be caz its too early to tell..Only the other different thing that i noticed is feeling like i have smthin in my stomach lil heavy...may be im stressing abt not getting pregnant and dats wut's making me feel like im pregnant. I also started to feel like i have to breath lil harder then usual.. idk what's going on with me or may be im having all these feelings because im stressing about it so much and alwaz worryin... :(  plesase comment back thanx
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242596 tn?1192425949
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Hello,

If you are pregnant it wasn't from the sex you had on the 7th, but from an earlier act of intercourse. Take a home pregnancy test.    If the HPT is negative, repeat it in one week.

Also, I'd encourage you to begin to use reliable contraception if your goal is to not become pregnant.  See your physician or visit your local clinic to find out more information.  And properly used condoms are an obvious way to prevent pregnancy and decrease the chance of contracting an STD.

Best regards,

Dr. Downing
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363110 tn?1340920419
I don't think your pregnant, even tho it does happen that way. The blood right after you had "sex" sounds like it was only from him trying to enter you.
but what you have now is probably your period.

How old are you?

I'm just curous is all. But I think your fine, if you are still worried then in a week or two take a pregnancy test. good luck!
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