Giving birth the second time around is usually easier. First, your body has been through it before so reacts better. Second, you should be less afraid because it is no longer the fear of the unknown. You've already done it. I had epidurals so pain wasn't really a fear of mine. That's always an option. And the end result of your new baby is fantastic so I was more excited than afraid. But most women have an easier time after their first baby. good luck and congrats