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Can't stand kids!

I love kids . I have 8 siblings and they're all younger and were always stuck to me I always took care of them since my mother worked a lot. I'm now 20 and am 13+2 days pregnant . I now live with my fiance and his parents but we are living in the back house . Anyway, he has a 18 year old sister and she has a son that is 2 . For some reason he cries a lot all day and I get so annoyed I can't stand it . I can't even stand too see my babydaddy with him just because he cries for everything I really think its her fault because she got pregnant at 15 and had him at 16 and is still very irresponsible . Is it bad that I feel this way ?? Do yall think its gunna affect me in anyway as raising my child since I am a ftm ? I'm kinda nervous because I don't want to feel frustrated when my baby comes and its crying . I am very patient idk why I can't stand her son. Can it be maybe because I'm pregnant ?
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5913031 tn?1382391190
It definitely could be because your pregnant... I love my niece to pieces she's 7 months but lately I've had no patience for her.. she drives me insane when I watch her... So I'm sure its just our hormones.. she cries for everything now and it makes me wanna pull my hair out lol but my son can aggravate me all day and it doesn't bother me or make me not wanna be around him.. its just other kids I can't stand right now lol
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2170635 tn?1357911686
With my son i could not stand my little sisster or bf its mostlikely hormons i get annoyed easy
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It's definitely the hormones. I have 2 little ones & I'm 15 weeks pregnant.  I don't have nearly as much patience as I do when I'm not pregnant.  My 3yr old has started this whining thing & it drives me insane.  I keep reminding myself that they don't understand &sosometimes I just have to walk away for a few minutes.
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